Vagina not deep enough -_-

So.. I never thought that I'd have to post in these sections.. but I'm finally getting some action and it hurts too fucking bad to do anything or for him to have control because my pussy isn't deep enough -_-
Any suggestions or anything? Can I make it deeper? I'm irritated. lol

 

I had a girlfriend with this "issue" once. There's just certain positions that don't work. Find the ones that do and work on those.

 

Date a chinaman.

 

Are you dating Long Dong Silver lol ?

 

Bleh, so there's no way to work with it? Like, literally either I'm too shallow/he's too long that even him trying to be in control in missionary is painful.. only certain angles of doggy style & positions where I'm in control are any good..

 

That's odd. Doggy style provides better access for the man and is usually more painful for women with that issue.

Some vaginas are deep, some are shallow, just as some dicks are long, others are short. Nature isn't always consistent. Just work with what you have, there's nothing more you can do. And enjoy what you can do.

 

Never had that problem before, work with what works.

 

Find a witch doctor and shrink his dick, lol.

 

That's a terrible joke Mayqueen, but it's still waaay better than the tricknologist's'

 

I was going to offer to lend her a hand....

 

wooooo get some seized

maybe you just need to be stretched out a little first. could get better with time.

 

All people are different in some ways.

Part of being a good lover, is recognizing when your partner is enjoying themself and continueing what you are doing, or vice versa, recognizing that they are not, and changing what they are doing until their partner is enjoying it.

The first time he thrusts in and you say "ow, that hurts" he should be changing his approach...

I don't care if he has a dick 10 feet long... only a moron would think it was okay to shove all 10 feet into a chick... That is part of paying attention to your partner.

 

Okay, well I can help you with this. First of all if you haven't been together long then the nerves can prevent the vagina from expanding properly. Also if there isn't enough foreplay, the vagina wont expand enough to properly accommodate. Ethnicity can be a factor like if a woman from the east were to perform coitus with a man who comes from a black ethnicity, odds are they would probably have uncomfortable sex. However there are numerous positions for shallow penetration. one of the better ones are the spooning position. Or the standing up position with you both vertical allows for a more shallow penetration which will still bring pleasure to him without you hurting. I highly suggest getting a book called "The Good Sex Bible" and a book called "The Position Sex Bible". They are filled with tips and positions for couples with just your issue, and new and exciting ideas if you are just now entering into the physical part of your relationship. I hope I was helpful!

 

You learned this in school did you?

 

I used to have this problem and it 100% had to do with me not being able to relax. This can just perpetuate itself too because the more it hurts the more you're going to tense up. You shouldn't even worry about him taking control yet. What helped me was being in control until I figured out what worked and felt good, and once that happened I was able to get into it enough to let my partner take control.

Take things really slow, stick to what you know doesn't hurt you, stay in control, and then slowly ease into other positions.

 

Yeah, that fancy book reading. It's just statistics and genetics and evolution. It's quite fascinating.

 

Keep trying...

I offer this experience. A few years ago I had a torrid and highly charged relationship with a slim woman who, for the first few months, would actually bleed after vaginal sex. Slowly we worked out what worked (cowgirl) and then she decided to try anal. I was like, "what? It barely fits in your pussy!"

3 hours later I was balls deep in her back door with nary a complaint, and she was squirting like Ol' Faithful.

Oddly, I could-and she begged me to-slam her ass doggy style as hard as possible. But the front door was always gently gently. It did improve such that she has no pain or bleeding, but-for whatever reason-never to the stage of "normal", insofar as that's relevant.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zdmSJLxn7B4"]YouTube - ‪Bottom Of The Pussy: Crime Pays‬‏

 

make him wear a ring-a-ling so he cant get it all in

 

I like the cut of BBAD's jibe.