My ex has a lot of problems in her life, and because when we were together, we were so close so we could talk about virtually any thing, this is still nearly true, although not as strong. I am the best person in her life who she can talk to about problems, and i still care for her so i will always be there for her on the phone. Being there for her is the more mature route than getting emotional and not talking to her and stuff.. but when ever i talk to her on the phone, its in a 'friends' way which just reminds me of how she hurt me, and she acts as if nothing has ever happened, and it just brings back more hurt.
Im not trying to be mean or anything...but would you want to act like something happend? Is she supposed to bring it up ro talk to you as "lovers" I mean wouldn't that hurt more? I guess its gunna hurt but at least you have her as a friend...I mean she could be outta your life completly.
