Ugh I NEED to...

I NEED TO VENT PEOPLE. I don't even care if no one cares to reply, but in some form or another I have to vent on the shitty day I've had...

Ok to start off, I wake up and make breakfast for my boyfriend and our roommate, but my roommate wakes up, and doesn't want the eggs I made him. Ok, no biggy.

Second, I decide to do dishes when I'm done eating breakfast because there is a mountain of them and it's my job, blah blah blah I'm responsible. But when I go to do them, there is a waffle mess from when my bf and my roommate got high and made waffles, along with a horrible batter mix disaster all over the counters...I bring this up to my bf and he says, "I'll get on that" and continues to watch t.v....ok? So i end up cleaning the mess, and the waffle maker, and the most dishes I've done in my life.

Third, I waited for my bf to acknowledge it, but he didn't. ok...

Fourth, I'm angry at stuff my bf did in the past three days because he doesn't seem to think he did anything wrong, being all non chalant. ok...

Fifth, My boyfriend couldn't get an erection when I tried suprising him with sex, since he's always the spontanious one i thought i would try. It was a no go. And I tried a lot of things, and that's all I'm saying. So I didn't get sex...ok...

Sixth, I don't feel very well...ok...

Seven, There is nothing in this house for me to eat that isn't ramen or something with meat in it. I'm so sick of being pushed under the rug for being a vegetarian...ok...

Eight, my bf and roommate don't really seem to understand anything I need because...hate to pull this card...they're men. I use double bladed razers for my legs because they actually shave the hair...but when i ran out, my roommate bought me the cheapest one blade razors he could find and now my leg looks like something from a SAW movie...

It's just been an all around crap day. I'm sorry. But I'm on a man hate thing as of now, it will pass...hopefully....

 

my eyes tend to glaze over the first time i see the phrase "my bf." i think this post blinded me permanently.

 

If it does not pass......move out

Seriously, it just sounds as if you had a day when everything just urked you and maybe with not feeling great it seems that the infractions of the boys were even more horrendous than they were.

You know tomorrow is another day......bound to improve!

 

Sounds Like You're At The "Emotional Peak" Of Your 28 Day Cycle...

Cut The Bois Some Slack....



Cheers Glen.

 

I actually read the whole thing.
Let's see, boyfriend makes a mess sais 'I'll get on that' but then continues to watch t.v (he knows very well you'll get annoyed by the mess and eventually clean it yoursef)

You make yummy eggs for your roommate, he doesnt want them, and Im guessing didnt really thank you for it either (he takes advantage of your kindess)

Theres nothing in the house for you to eat because you're a vegetarian and your roommate picks up the cheap razors when you've already expressed that you prefer the other kind. (They're not really listening to you)

This happens, you're a nice and thoughtful person. Who probably consistently goes out of her way to help others and enjoys doing so. So, as a result you pull the short stick. Everyones used to your kushy lovey behaviour and walks all over you, because A. They know you'll forgive them and everything will go back to normal again and B. You wont really say anything about it.
So, speak up. Say something about it, I mean really say something about it. Or!
Stop, like right now...stop being so nice. I know thats a weird concept but just do it for a while. I mean don't be a bitch either. But just ....
Okay so your boyfriend had a huge mess, and said he'd clean it up.
Don't clean it, even if you know he wont.
Then he'll be like...oh I don't have a live in gf/maid anymore.
Roommate wakes up after awhile, no breakfast?...hmm I miss that now, hey that was nice of her why'd she stop.

And do the grocery shopping man, obviously they're not capable.

 

i see somebody hates men...

sometimes "i'll get on that" means "i'll get on that," not "I'M DOING THAT RIGHT THIS FUCKING INSTANT SO YOU CAN'T COMPLAIN THAT I WAITED 30 SECONDS BEFORE DOING IT."

 

Simple solution. Dump the boy friend and throw out the roommate. If they are paying the bills it is real simple. Move out and ditch the losers.

Oh but you love him so...

Sorry you had a bad day. If I was somebody's doormat it would piss me off too.

 

Yeah, really it was just that, they don't appreciate what I do, and I am a doormat most of the time.

And BTW to the male poster saying that I am on the peak of my 28 day cycle, it's called a period. Man up. Also go to hell, women can be mad about shit whenever they please bitch, this isn't the 50's. cheers glen.

 

I do love him, very much so. I love my room mate like a brother also, so once again looping back to the doormat thing, I'M A DOORMAT lol. I just don't know how to not be that way...

 

My Response To This Post Is....."THANK GOD I'M GAY"...



Cheers Glen.

 

it was a joke post, i didn't think you would catch that i was joking, but i was, hence the winking smiley. i thought it was funny because you said what my bf said...who i'm currently pissed at...anyways Glen you're not hated. :hat: :cheers2:

 

All Is Forgiven......:grouphug:.......



Cheers Glen.

 

Let me guess...You are paying the bills right?

Somehow I think you are paying for everything.

 

sorry to hear it.
i can't really relate to your oppressors *shrug*

 

LMAO! GIve him a fucking high five for SPEXXX

 

That's quite the accusation. She even stated that she waited for quite some time and he still didn't do it....

I think thou doth protest to much

 

And One From GLEN Too....:hurray:



Cheers Glen.

 

Everyone knows your name is Glen, it's your username
Secondly blaming biology for any sign of emotional conflict is irrational.
Cheers, douche.

 

Seems Your Not Content To Rest On Your Laurels, After Spreading "Bile"

Throughout The Dreadlocks Forum, Suddenly You Feel The Need To Start

All Over Again, Here, In Random Thoughts....

You Clearly Are A Sad, Bitter, And Lonely Soul...



Cheers Glen.

 

There's no way i would have agreed to living with my bf at 18. I think you must be insane.

If there's a pile of dishes that aren't yours, don't clean them. let them sit and rot until the responsible person cleans their mess. and if they don't, put those stank ass dishes on their bed.