Two male friends sleeping occasionally together...

I'm female and my two closest friends are male. Let's call them Tom and Andrew. They've known one another for over ten years now and they're like brothers. I know they love each other 'cause I've heard them saying it but just in a friendly way.
Some time ago Tom came up to me and told me there are moments he feels a little more for Andrew than friendly love. Not in a gay way like thinking of a relationship or so (By the way, they've always had girlfriends exclusively.), just wanting to touch and kiss him. - Short version.
By this time they have sex together from time to time as Tom talked to Andrew about it. He said he feels the same. They also enjoy the kissing and caressing. So now they're even. (And still looking for GIRLfriends 'cause they're both single.)
In my opinion that's okay. Love should be free. Why shouldn't two guys have some fun together when they just feel like it? Sex should be beautiful and enjoyed and should connect. Why shouldn't it bring two male friends even closer together? If it's ok for both of them WHY NOT? And by the way, I don't know why, but I find the thought of them having "friendly" sex together extremely cute... They trust each other so much. And that's the way it should be.
What do you think?

 

The only problem is that if their feelings grow strongly for each other, and they begin to have a relationship and break up, the "long friendship" can be ruin as well.

 

"I felt a bond with my friend when I did it with him. I think it was because as guys, we knew how it felt, we trusted each other and had great respect for one another. I felt there was a binding just as you felt there was a binding with your situation. I definitely have a bond with my friend. We have each other's backs, advise and encourage each other in life, jobs, our romantic relationships with other women, kids, spiritual walks."
Some guy wrote this in some thread. That's exactly what I think is amazing. That bond, you know?

 

I think it`s all gravy. :biggrin:

 

i'm hungry.

 

Sounds like something "Tom" would say...

 

I agree with the O.P. Love is awesome that way.

 

.. Spicy dish of Tom and Andrew cumming up my good sir... Would you like a drink with that? ..

 

If Tom and Andrew are happy, who am I to criticize?

 

When will Tom and Andrew do something interesting, that's what I wonder. Can you tell us some detailed stories of them nailing hot chicks?

 

daddy do you want some sausage
daddy do you want some sausages!!!
daddy do you want some sausage
daddy do you want some sausages!!![/

 

I'm not here for that.
By the way, I'm not a voyeur.

 

Over compensate much?

Tell them to run everything else past you to see if its ok

Let me guess, as long as its not in a gay way?

As long as its not in a gay way? And as long as they are still looking for girlfriends?

 

Back in 5 mins

 

Papi must be a gay male underwear brand..



I was just curious.. Go look for yourself if you dont believe me..

 

Well, that is a mighty fine male specimen.:2thumbsup:

 

What are you up to...?
Let me say it like this, gays are mostly just a little to feminin for me. But two "normal" masculine guys... I don't know why but I fucking like that. If you have a problem with it just leave me alone.

 

wow. gays=feminine. masculine ('normal') guys=not gay. sounds like you've got it all figured out.

one day your simple black-and-white life is gonna come crashing down.

 

Blaxk and white? I don't know what you mean. Everyone knows gay guys prance around in tight pink t-shirts wearing bunny ears and giggling as they listen to Justin Bieber and cry at a Julia Roberts film. Straight guys are all lumberjacks and manly builders that love drinking beer, farting and not washing and can usually be found on motorcycles or with a gun in their hands. That's how you can tell a straight guy and gay guy apart. It's the only way you can tell unless you watch them have sex.

 

gay people are always harping on, saying

"we look just like normal people"

as soon as somebody starts mentioning 'normal looking' gay people

people start blowing the whistle like it is condescending.

i'm sure you know what he meant.