True Love (Yes or No)

Do you believe there is only one person out of the whole world that was meant to be with you, and nobody else, or do you think love is just what we make it, or other???

 

No I don't believe that there is one person for everybody. There are people out there that go there entire lives without ever being with anybody. I guess I could kind of go with love is what you make it. Infact now n days people get married and divorced three months later, it makes no fuckin sense to me.

 

I think love is what you make it. I also think some people may have a "soul mate" while other's may not.

 

i honestly don't know anymore... i don't think i believe in love at all anymore.

 

Why whats going on? Who hurt you?

 

That's just it isn't it?

What if you were to pass your soulmate or your "true love" after a bad relationship?

You would miss your opportunity for perfect happiness.. Sure you'd be happy with many people, but the person that would give you the MOST happiness may never enter your life...

So yes, thinking of a pile or a list of partners, some you may not know yet, somebody has to be top of that list.. I just think the chance, and that's what it is, of actually meeting that person will be unlikely for the vast majority of people...

We still find happiness, and it stops being relative..

I bet alot of people even think they have their "true love" with them, and will never know any different...

Oh.. I voted Maybe..

 

no one hurt me. i'm just not sure i believe in true love.

 

It's not even really about True Love, it's more about The Attraction. Which for most people only last three months. This is why there is so many swingers these day, it keeps the relationship going. Where did all the love go?

 

Yes but what triggered you? Something must of hit you all of a sudden?!

 

Yes, I do believe in true love. No, I don't think I believe that you are only capable of loving once in your life, but I DO believe that you may hold different feelings for a particular person, that you may never feel for another.

But I think the rules apply different ly for everyone. One man may only have one partner his entire life. Another may have several in a lifetime. Does that cheapen his true feelings for those he loved? Not necessarily. Assuming he didn't see those people all at once, that is.

 

it is impossbile to say whether somethign exists or not without experiencing it...

 

Yes I believe in true love and 1 soulmate for everyone... not everyone has the luck to find them though, sometimes it's too late... or too early... but then they find each other again...

 

also, when you find your one true love, the other loves just seem like... it wasn't really love, although it may have been. You always love your "one" true love more intensely, more... everything

 

I don't think true love is something you find, I think it's something you create.

 

very well-said, penny. i totally agree.

i believe in true love.

 

i just haven't met the "one" i guess. i don't know. i find that whenever i'm with someone i want something else so i don't believe in the "one" i do love the person i see once in awhile but i couldn't say whether it is true love or not.

 

True love is the highest point of emotional attachment or synchronicity or whatever you want to call it. Love comes in a lot of different colors and flavors, with so many shades and variations. It's not an on/off state. Love is not a binary code.

But people are built different emotionally. Some may feel that they can only love one person ever, end of story. For them, maybe that's true. But imho, the more you love, the more you can love. It's an emotion that encompasses and doesn't exclude. One woman could be the perfect mate for a dozen men. One man might be the ideal man for just as many women. There are how many billion people in the world? The chances are greater every day that there are more compatible people out there capable of "true love". We only need to find them.

I think we need to simply start accepting love and not over-analyzing it. Love is something that can be in limitless supply so long as others are willing to accept it.

But then, what do I know?

 

I wonder... it'd sure be Nice but I'm not holding my breath.

 

i didn't believe in love until i fell in love, and then i started to believe in a whole score of things, like fate and past lives...heh ;p and yeah, i believe everyone has a soul mate out there...its whether they find them or not thats the problem - god bless the world wide internet for connecting us to everyone else, ey?

 

I beleive that there are many people out there that could be a fit.... I just recently found my perfect fit though <3