Trade-off to get anal sex?

Guys, if you wanted anal sex from your girl and she was hesitant, would you let her fuck you in the ass with a strapon just to get it from her?

Girls, if you were hesitant but not totally against anal, would you do it if the guy took it with a strapon first?

 

Turn about is fair play isnt it?

 

I'm not hesitant so I can't really answer this very well, but I think it's a pretty good idea.

Mostly because if you don't want to have anal sex, and you suggest this as a compromise, there's a 90% chance he'll never bring it up again.

 

Plus a 100% chance he'll be extremely careful to be gentle and accomidating if he knows his turn is next

 

No, even better - his turn was first, so he knows first-hand how important it is to be gentle.

 

I wanted her ass for the longest time, but she was still afraid. Since I insisted it is so easy, she suggested that I show her just how easy it is.
That was the first night I took a dildo in my ass from her. She kept her word and we tried it again, to no avail. It just wasn't for her, but she didn't mind doing it to me. So that is where we settled. If we are going to have anal sex, it's my ass.

 

ehhhh im not amazingly intersted in anal, and nailing my bf is of much less interest than him exploring new territories
eventually hell get in my butt, and well decide from tehre if its happening again. unless he relaly really really really wants me to, im not going in his

 

I can't say that I did this to get anal access but I can say that I have done this as part of an equal anal experience. I must say it was well worth both on the receiving side and eventually when I needed to know how to best give as well.

 

What's good the the goose... right? I am all for this, but not just to get in her ass. This is the one experience that I think men and women can share most equally, yes, men have a prostate, so the feeling is slightly different, but all things considered, an ass is an ass and the feelings you can give your partner she can most recreate and share with you. I think it is a great way to be closer. My two cents.

 

it isn't about fairness its about what you want
now that probably sounded in sensative but thats not how I meant it
if both partners want to have anal sex then do it, and if one of you don't want it than don't do it
there shouldn't be a negotiation
that being said I would definately let a girl penitrate me because one it feels good and secondly because I couldn't expect a girl to take it in the ass if I myself was scared to try myself

if she has tried anal sex and didn't like it then don't push them because thats insensative

(I would have said that last one for both men and women but I have yet to hear of a man who has been penitrated and didn't like it

 

Interesting question. However, in my view, such a compromise would do little to encourage someone who already is unwilling to try anal sex.

If a woman has inhibitions about anal sex, there are a number of psychological barriers which obviously need to be confronted first before mutual "anal giving and taking" can take place.

I fucked my husband in the ass with a strap-on only when I was fully comfortable with being fucked in the ass myself. This made (and continues to make) the experience far more physically and mentally pleasurable for both of us.

 

I say..Why not?.For Sure! I mean she's let me do her and I think it would only be fair.She's hinted at it but were not quite there yet.

 

My girl has no problem with anal... lol

I feel bad for guys that have to trick their GF's or buy them shit to do that.

sorry

 

Two words:


HELL NO.

I can say that a thousand times.

I'm not THAT interested in anal so if a girl says no I'll probably never bring it up again.

 

i agree that it is great to have anal play as a mutual thing. i'm really into asses, so i love giving and receiving it. however, if my partner is not really into it, and i can feel that it's an honest not really into it rather than just psychological or physical barriers to the issue, i won't push it. however if it seems that my partner is interested, but has reservations, i will work towards getting him/her comfortable with the idea. i don't like to push anyone towards something they're not comfortable with, and i would never do something just to get someone else to feel obligated to do it as well. i do it if i like it, and i do it to them if they like it. simple as that.

 

be careful with this one guys as it may put her off anal sex more lol

I did it thinking it may help, gotta say i love it now in my ass but its put her off more i reckon- not helped at all lol

 

Well if there isn't a negotiation, that's fine. But there's a two way street here. If one partner doesn't want to do it; then don't do it. Nobody is obligated to do anything they don't want to do. But the other partner has no obligation to stay in a relationship where they are being sexually unsatisfied by a prude. There's no way I'd stay in a relationship where the girl refuses to do anal at least every once in a while.

 

I really want do have the ass, so if she wanted to ream me with a strap on as some kind of a trade, I'd let her fuck as long as she wanted....

As long as I would end up being able to fuck 'er in the butt

 

I would do almost anything to penetrate her anally, and this includes letting her fuck me with a strap on. Hell, I might even like it.

 

By far the best advice here so far, as usual.