tips on what men like

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Saje, Jul 21, 2005.

  1. Saje

    Saje Member

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    What are some things that guys like that I can try with my bf? Just to spice things up. Any suggestion appreciated.
     
  2. Syntax

    Syntax Senior Member

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    Why don't you ask him?
     
  3. velvet

    velvet Banned

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    Agreed. Not every guy likes the same thing. Some like it rough, some sensual.. really depends on the guy. Just experiment.. unless he's the oldfashioned type that wants things to stay the same ;)

    So yeah.. just ask him about it or just try stuff you haven't done before. Kinda hard to give advice on that, since I/we don't know what's normal for you two in the bedroom ;)
     
  4. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

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    Ask the man
     
  5. horror83

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    try doggie style thats always fun
    have him lay down on the bed and put your back to him a ride
    Have some candles in the room thats always nice
    use handcuffs tie them to the bedpost
    Just have fun
     
  6. jamie613

    jamie613 jamie

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    My favorite is dogie style but all guys are different just ask him
     
  7. Saje

    Saje Member

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    I do ask him and he tells me but I was just thinking of something fun to surprise him. We do lots of different positions. We are very open. Just wanted some fresh ideas.
     
  8. Gravy_Train_Gilmour

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    yeah, don't ask him, that'll never work. just sneak some bdsm shit on him when he isn't looking, and don't listen to a single fucking word of protest.
     
  9. Syntax

    Syntax Senior Member

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    Yeah, that works too. Would work on me, at least. :p
     
  10. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    a lot of guys seem to like it when the girl takes control. Precisely what that leads to is up to you, be it bondage, rough, or you're simply on top and dictate the pace. Straddling him and holding down his hands, or using loose bonds (things he can wiggle out of if he needs to, but the intent is there) and simply playing with him as much as you want (kissing his chest, touching him, stripping for him, whatever) can be a good starter, and seems quite... popular
     
  11. Davino

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    just don't pee or poop on him.
     
  12. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    or draw too much blood, or call him daddy, or try a dildo up his butt without any warning or foreplay, or involve animals
     
  13. velvet

    velvet Banned

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    Hey who knows.. maybe he's into all that shit :)

    Wasn't there sometimes in the news a while ago about this dude that died because he went to somekind of animal-sex-farm where a stallion ripped apart his intestines? The coroner (that's the guy who examines dead folk, right?) said he never saw anything like that in his whole career.. hehehe.. stupid fuck, litteraly. It was in the US somewhere, where bestiality is legal, so no actions were taken. The police is investigation though if small animals were involved as well, to see if they could make an animal-cruelty case. But for bigger animals.. ah well.. if you let your stallion hump a mare, why not let it hump a dumb guy who's prolly willing to pay a whole bunch of money for it? ;)
     
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  15. velvet

    velvet Banned

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    funny how one word can say so much about a person :p
     
  16. Dizzy Man

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    Here's some stuff that turns me on and I wish girls would do more...

    1. I'd like girls to talk dirty more often, and tell me what they want me to do to them. Beg me to do it (even when I'm already doing it). I also wish girls would use dirtier words. Girls are too polite!

    2. Where possible, I'd like them to keep their clothes on unless I decide to remove something for them! I prefer to fuck a clothed woman than a naked woman, but maybe that's just me.

    3. I love girls to spread themselves open with their fingers, especially while I'm licking them out. Fingers are sexy, and fingers + spread pussy = lovely.

    4. I wish girls would put their hands on their butt more often, and spread their butt sometimes. I think all guys love to see a woman put her hands on her own butt.

    5. When the girl takes control then I think she should really get dominant. When she's on top fucking me, or giving me a handjob I want her to get mean and aggressive, like she's trying to hurt me.

    6. I wish girls would get their face up close to the end of my cock when thy're giving me a handjob. It's no fun if they do it at arm's length! If you can open your mouth while you're doing it, and maybe stick your tongue out, he's gonna be very happy!

    7. I want girls to stick their tongue out more. Tongues are just so sexy. The more tongue I see during sex, the better.

    8. I wish girls would be more forceful about getting their **** licked. I want them to order me to do it, push my head down, and grind themselves onto my face. It's more enjoyable when I know she really craves it. I wish girls would just sit on your face without asking, that would be cool.

    9. I want to see women masturbating more, but they seem a little shy about doing it during sex. I love the idea of a woman rubbing herself while she's kissing me.

    10. I wish they'd rub their ass against my groin all the time. Even when we're not having sex. I can't get enough of it! If a girl pushed her ass into my crotch — instant erection! (Never happens though)

    But this is just me. Not all men are the same, obviously!
     
  17. monosphere

    monosphere Holly's Hubby

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    Funny you should mention this as it happened about 30 miles from my home. Omniwulf should have never moved away from here.:p
     
  18. outlaw immortal

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    talk dirty to him. for example when in a restaurant with him, tell him what you're gonna do when you get home.

    it adds to the suspense:D because as much as he wants to he can't get under the table and start eating apple pie can he? :(

    or could he:rolleyes:
     
  19. Oz!

    Oz! Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    um....definitly ask him...sometimes an unwanted element introduced to sex can be surprising :eek:


    Oz
    Still trying to get over the incident with the frozen chicken
     
  20. piscessunlibramoon19

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    My husband isn't like any other guy and I've been with him 4 years, still trying to figure out what he likes. He doesn't like to give oral, only likes to receive. I even threaten to stop giving him oral if he doesn't give me any and he still won't do it because it makes him nauseous (and I'm always clean and fresh down there so I don't know why he's so weird about it). He doesn't like a girl to be straightforward about sex, but he can't read hints. He doesn't like it when a girl comes close to him while he's playing video games because it distracts him, but he says that when a girl gets involved with what he's doing (even if she's not doing it herself) after a while he'll want to have sex. I don't get it! Men are impossible to please, very picky, and they wonder why we never want to do anything! And yes, whoever you are who said girls are too polite.... I'm probably the most polite of all. I wish I wasn't but I was raised by really strict Christians who think sex is dirty and you shouldn't talk about it and it should stay in the bedroom, on the bed. So they scared me and now I'm afraid to admit when I like something or when I want to try something new or even to say anything to my husband if I want to have sex. I'm going crazy trying to please him!
     

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