Time to deal with the Ex's junk!

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Luvnh8, Feb 11, 2012.

  1. Luvnh8

    Luvnh8 Member

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    :2thumbsup: After readin another's post.............. about letting go of the Ex that is!

    It's been some time for mine, and we have gone WAY PAST friends now after him being an online pervert and me dating ..... I think it's time that I get rid of all his junk he left at my house here. I admit that occasionally wear his big ass shirts due to coziness............. but now I feel it's time to let those go too.

    It's been since........ End of November /Dec of "trying" then giving up on his part.... but I don't want to deal with his junk any more and the perv can afford a 300 porn doll then he can afford to replace his junk from here :2thumbsup:

    This weekends task, get rid of junk into dump fire!

    How long did you keep the ex's items?
     
  2. seizedbyanger

    seizedbyanger Banned

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    I never keep ex's items

    My mind is just blown by $300 porn.. doesn't he know there is so much porn out there and most of it is free??
     
  3. Bonkai

    Bonkai Later guys

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    ...wait he bought a sex doll while he was in a relationship?! wtf?!

    Ebay is always selling and buying Luvn!
     
  4. Luvnh8

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    He lived with me for a while........but he left and then was based on LDR and he just spent his time not working and buying 100 to 300 sexual based toys @_@ ............ long story short. I'm single and burning his items this weekend lol :afro:

    He can have his toys all he wants, I'm going out and dating and feeling the REAL thing hahah...........tmi
     
  5. Bonkai

    Bonkai Later guys

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    [​IMG] Why do women feel the need to burn shit. Just sell and make some money Luvn. Buy some new shoes or perhaps a dildo or some movie tickets or w/e with the money you get from his sex doll (assuming it's not used). Obviously you are still a bit heated, but burning his shit is not gonna make you feel that much better, well on 2nd thought....you got a fire extinguisher?! :devil:
     
  6. Luvnh8

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    First of all I'm not all the ladies, and this would be the first time and even if I just threw the junk out, my area burns them...........that's why I said burn ;)

    Second, he's cheap with his other junk.... just old clothes and shoes really and crap he bought me. Only with his toys does he spend money on..........one of our main arguements.
     
  7. Bonkai

    Bonkai Later guys

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    When i said women i didn't mean just you, burning an ex's belongings seems to be a trend nowadays.
     
  8. Luvnh8

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    Yeah I was just buggin ;) been up almost 24 hours now hehehe
    mabye I should wait til Sunday to get rid of it all
     
  9. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    if you have a problem with online perverts, you are in the wrong place...


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  10. stanburyfam

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    Luvn not sure about your part of the world but there is an international organisation called freecycle.org (think it is yahoo groups based) each mini site is owned and run from someone in their local area, it is to stop things being sent to the tip and BURNED one mans/ladies junk another persons treasure why not check it out and see if there is a group in your area that way you get rid of your rubbish (not him, his stuff) and the dump/firepit has a tiny bit less to deal with.

    Jay
     
  11. stanburyfam

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    On a bipolar mini high(hypomania) into my third day awake might have to take a sleeping pill or off to the hospital for me which is not always a bad thing, if I am really good I get resraints and a straight jacket but only if i beg
     
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    im glad my ex took all her shit and then some with her.
     
  13. Luvnh8

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    I still haven't dealt with this when I wanted to,but been super busy with work....
    He sent me an e card for Valentines lol which reminded me that i didn't do yet.

    i stopped wearing his shirts now though :p
     
  14. Rosehippy

    Rosehippy Banned

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    i have lots of things from different x's and it's cool cos im still friends with most and have never had the desire to do the "cleanse" i have lots of gifts from different x's all over my house. It has added to the charm and no one minds...im lucky cos aint that sweet?
     
  15. Rosehippy

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    You poor thing luvn8. You must feel terrible. You think the online perv thing means they really are not into you? i have pondered this a lot being a bdd sufferer. Hideous stuff.
     
  16. GLENGLEN

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    Maybe You Should Phone Him And Ask Him What He Want's And

    Doesn't Want, These Are HIS Possesions NOT Yours, Afford Him Some Respect Please...[​IMG]



    Cheers Glen.
     
  17. KewlJosh536

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    you gave ample time for him to retrieve it. the property is considered abandoned after 30 days.

    * BURN BABY BURN *
     
  18. Luvnh8

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    I chose to not be descriptive of what I mean by this, but it's nothing small liek what everyone here thinks it is..........

    Glen,
    We have since spoke, some how he knew i needed support/comfort as aclose friend of mine died. I told him during that somewhere that i would send him his items back, but he said that they are mine now and can do what I think is necessary. I did consider this though as when I first posted was very upset but glad i was too busy to act on anger.

    Thanks all,
    for now i will keep them until i can think clear what to do with them right
    now i'm just grieving a friend.
     
  19. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    Sorry To Hear About Your Friend, And Thanks For Replying To Me...:)



    Cheers Glen.
     
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