So about a month ago some guy began messaging me through myspace... he's from the area and some people im friends with know him. Its strange but cool too because my best friend's boyfriend works with him. well we talked through e mail for a a couple weeks and then about two weeks ago we decided to hang out and meet for the first time. He came over and we sat outside smoked a bowl and talked for hours and discovered we actually have a lot in common and such. It was a good time and a couple days later he called me to see what i was up to and we talked for a bit... well then he said he would call me last friday... he never did. and then he said he would call me and we would hang out thursday... nope. I tried calling him once like four days ago to hang out but he didnt answer or call me back. And then he sent me an email saying sorry and that hes been busy and such and he'd call me in the next few days to hang out... but guess what, he hasnt called. Its understandable that he's been busy and such but im kinda wondering if he's just not interested in hanging out or what. Ive only met the guy once so its not like i care very much but it'd be nice to hang out with someone new, ya know? im just a bit confused... it seemed like we got along great. So i guess im just wondering what anybody thinks of the situation... if I should try calling him again or just let it go and forget about it and see if he ever tries to get a hold of me again.
Maybe he doesn't realize you're really interested? Guys can be kind of slow about that sort of thing. Call him again, maybe ask your friend to have her boyfriend mention your interest to him. Your story reminds me a little of my own fairytale. When I was 18, I met a guy at a party right before graduation. His sister was in my class, so I saw him again at graduation and we joked a little about the party and he got my phone number from me. Days went by with no call, then I mentioned it to a friend who just happened to hang out with him pretty regularly (I had no idea previously), so he dropped a few hints and a couple of nights later, I got a phone call. We hung out the next day, and the next...and the next. Nearly two and a half years later, here we are, living together, pretty much attached at the hip, lol. Sometimes it just takes a big neon "I'm interested in you!" sign to get it through.
he probably doesnt realize youre interested in him romantically, and that he needs to shape up on the boyfriend front
There's always the chance that he's not into you in that way. Quick question...any chance you are hotter in your my space pics than in real life? Sorry...had to ask
i would bet hes interested in you. Guys (especially stoners) hate the phone. And if a guy doesnt call a girl when he says he will, a girl think it means they arent intereste which is totally not true. If you call him, and actually make the effort to hang out with him, he will understand and get together with you again. I think if he msg'd you on myspace without meeting previously, chances are hes pretty interested in you.
Well no i look pretty much the same... and he called me after we hung out once to see what i was up to. So I dont believe that's the problem... but if thats so then shit oh well who knows. but yeah most likely be giving him a call tonight or something wish me luck And thanks to everyone for their suggestions! I most likely will have my friend mention something. And yeah you're probably right jacobfredjo about everything you said. Thanks!
Shit, not me, I've never been one to hold my tongue about my feelings. I believe firmly in telling someone how you feel, because you never know what might happen tomorrow.
