thinking of dumping my gf for something she did in the past

now we are both 22 year old adults. been dating for 4 months etc she says she loves me i love her. but i recently found out she had oral sex with a guy at her work 31 years older than her a few weeks before we started dating...now this is absolutely disgusting to me and says a lot about character. we've argued about it before, but at this point i dont know if i can get over it. what should i do?

 

Get over it, yeah? It was totally in the past before you were dating, were you together then? If you were, I would be upset. Though, I don't think age really matters. You've just got to live in the present. Good luck

 

dump her. and give me her number.

 

Put The Past In The Past Where It Belongs....

Everything Was A'OK In Your Relationship Till Some Little Trouble Causer

Brought This Incident To Light....

Look To The Future....



Cheers Glen.

 

She was lucky a much older guy wanted to recieve oral from a much younger woman - so think how you would feel if you were him - not a bad way to think of it?

 

yeah, that's pretty much unheard of..

 

......:2thumbsup:



Cheers Glen.

 

Get over it bro, she didnt shove a dick in your mouth.

 

take up smoking

 

Ok I say get over it. It happened let her be. You were not together. Who gets to choose her sexual exploration while she's single? HER! When you are older you will realize age isn't such a big deal whatsoever. It seems that way still in early 20's but it really isn't so gross. Let her be with you now. Leave her alone about it.

 

if you give this old guy oral sex, the universe will once again be in balance

 

Most likely you found out by way of her telling you. why did she tell you?, it was a test, which by the sound of it you have now failed

 

It had nothing to do with you so why should it bother you? Worry about what happens when you are with her! Not what happened before you.

 

OR, she's the one who failed the test of satisfying him in bed. Then she notices he's getting bored, and that's why she tests him.

Women who can't keep their mouths shut about what they've done are invariably uncomfortable with it, needy of approval, and a pain in the ass in bed.

 

If that is how you think then she deserves better than what you have to give her.

 

You better hope that is all you learn about her. Seems to be that the more you know, the more you might learn that you won't like. You choose.

 

duplicate

 

How squeaky clean is your past?

 

Oh boy bro! Yikees, at that age its gonna be a hard pill to swallow I know. Your not gonna like this but, she owes you no explanation on the matter, nor does she need to be sorry about it. Im sure you love her, and the fact that a mid 50yr old man got to use her mouth for a few minutes. Im sure by this point you have drilled her on if she swallowed him, did she like it, why did she do it, etc. It was her choice an she obviously liked the guy enough to blow him. Look at it this way, what if she found out the night before you started dateing. You had a 4 some with some strippers of different races (to make it juicy). Then you told her about it, and she fucking flips on you! Just switch places for a second, we all got a past. And never ask questions, you dont wanna know the answers to. At your age its gonna be quite emotional for you im sure, but dont blow it cause, it was before you bro...................

 

what you should do is stop arguing and figure out if you can get over it. if you can't, then just break up with her. i'm sure she'll be happy someone who doesn't freak out at the idea that she does in fact have a sexual history, and you'll be content when you find that virgin you're looking for

edit: though in all fairness to the OP, when you go finding out specific details of your gf's sexual past, you're probably gonna have a bad time