The girl at my local take away restaraunt..

Ok, so for the past few weeks i have been going in and having lunch at my local take away restaraunt and one of the girls there has caught my eye.

She has served me a few times but I'm trying to figure out the best way to ask her out without it seeming awkward as she is at work and wouldn't know what to do/say..

What would you do in my situation and how would you succeed in getting her on a date?

 

Simply ask. There's a fifty-fifty chance either way.

 

haha thanks Mael. And how how would be the best way to ask her out? Can't just say hey wanna go on a date?

 

If you want something more formal, be direct. Women love confidence.

Say, "Would you like to get together sometime?" The worst thing is to directly ask to have coffee or have dinner. If she responds positively, then you can arrange to make plans after exchanging phone numbers.

 

What would be the best way to exchange phone numbers? Preferably I get hers. Can't just be direct and say can i have ur phone number i want to take u out on a date.. Have to slide in and make it fit?!

 

If she states that she would like to get together with you sometime, it is easy enough to ask that you both exchange numbers. You have to be aware of the fact that she is working and that she might not have time. Therefore, write down your number on a napkin that you can hand to her, and ask her that she write down her number on the receipt that she will hand to you.

 

Theres normally her and 4 or 5 others behind the counter and about the same amount of people behind me in the queue.. If it was a quiet day and maybe no one was there, It could possibly be easier. Just need a real good way to break the Ice.. We did strike up a mini conversation about some renovations that were happening there

 

Course you can.

Maybe be more specific about what you wanna do, eg "wanna go for a milkshake?"

 

i guess i need some kind of lead up question to it

 

Meh I love the direct approach of just asking for her number.

Its just simpler and quick especially in that busy diner setting.

 

I guess cox it's my local place, I'd feel a bit worried of rejection and going back

 

It's my local place I meant to say lol

 

You have to man up dude. Just ask out for coffee or what ever when she is serving you. If she says yes, ask her for a pen and a piece paper with her phone number on it. Once you have her number you control your own fate. Haha not really but you are in for a first date.

 

yeah i have no prob with manning up i just want to be off to a good start

 

fuck it up, most likely.

 

I have a deceiving trick about getting a girl's number sometimes, and it has mixed results but I'm hesitant on sharing or not given that I don't know the moral core of some people here who might misuse this piece of advice....

Anyway just don't do anything pervy that would get you thrown out of the local diner, but nobody is going to blame you for asking a girl's number because she's caught your fancy.

But don't over think it like a middle schooler does with his crush.

Recognize your emotion, act on it, shrug your shoulders if it doesn't work in your favor. You're still breathing, got a good meal on the diner table/counter right? That's all that matters.

BUT I WOULD BE afraid of actually getting the date, and ruining it, and getting tainted food because you broke the girl's heart or made her feel used.
You may not WANT to return to that diner if the relationship doesn't work out.

 

ill be ok. whats your trick?

 

I have to warn you it can backfire on you in a massive way though...I got slapped once.

And it has a higher percentage chance of working in a academic setting rather than a diner.

I'll PM you the tip.

 

Maybe what we need here is the woman's perspective.

Ladies ?

 

thanks for the tip monkjr, ill try it tomorrow or friday. I know she finishes around 5pm weekdays