I know, I know, this subject may be tired, but I have to know! My guy's kind of shy and likes to jump right to penetration or go down on me. How can I hint that I want to give him something to look forward to, too? And then...how to go about it? Thanks for you help!
I'd say to just stop him for a second when he is going to penetrate you and start to give him one...I doubt he will mind...and if he does I'm sure he would say something.
Don't you have any communication going on? The best way to tell him what you want to happen is to tell him what you want to happen. If you're afraid to talk with him, how much of a relationship is there? You gotta assert yourself. From the sound of it, your sex life is rushed -- or else, how could there be no time to slow it down and make the course it is taking diverge a bit in a different direction? Do you just hustle your clothes off and start having intercourse? Don't you lie naked together and make out and kiss and fondle, and spend a lot of time there together, which would mean you had to fill it somehow, and keep varying from one thing to the next? When I'm having sex with a girl, I like to have it be slow and luxuriant, like we have all the time in the world, and get to try out anything that comes to mind. If you were to just be lying there kissing or something, I can't imagine there would not be an opportunity for you to simply kiss down his body until you get to his cock and just start kissing and sucking it. Where's the difficulty getting that to happen? This is one of those things where you just have to take action. -Jeffrey
whoa, hold on, your complaining cause he just jumps right in and pleases you and you dont have to do a damn thing, how is this bad again??
true, communication is really whats necessary, even during sex. sometimes he or i will want to do a different position. i like a mixture.
I am the type of guy that likes to give, and doesn't care too much about recieving usually. My girlfriend fixed that for me by tying me up and licking my entire body, and just teasing the hell outta me for about an hour before giving me a really great blow job. Then she told me i would never be able to eat her out again if I didn't let her return the favor more often. I am fine with all she wants to give now.
Grab him by the belt immediatly, and just whip it out and thats that. or just say I wanna suck your dick. every guy is a sucker for that line
