Tell the truthIII:

Sexual Harrassment: Do you consider it sexual harrassment when a good-looking person touches you on the buttocks?(Don't you just love that word, buttocks.)
People seem touchy(So to speak) when I don't add an example photo so I'm trying to be a pleaser tonight.

 

it ain't harassment if you like it.

 

depends on if it is wanted or not... if it isnt then, yes, because no matter what you look like the offense is still the same
If an ugly person did it would you consider it sexual harassment?

 

Peanut, I thing the grabber girl looks kind of like you. (I had to go look at your picture again. (Have you ever been a blonde lol)

 

it would only bother me if a guy was doin it withought my consent.

but i dont have much to grab on to anyway

 

would depend on their attitude while doing it. was it in fun? was it meant to be flirtatious? was it meant to be scummy?

 

Lots of ugly football players touch each others butts all the time, yet none of them complain. I think it has to actually be a sexual thing. You might be able to tell depending on othe conditions:

Is it happening in the workplace?
Is the person doing it in a position of authority?
Have you ever told them to stop (this one is a dead giveaway)?
Do you know the person? And are you on friendly terms?

I think a one time touch with someone you are on good terms is too ambiguous to call (whether wanted or unwanted), but I think the law works in the favor of the "touchee" in most cases (though judges and juries often don't). If you wanted to file suit for harrasment, you'd have a case, but you may not win.

 

i dont consider it harrassment when a hot girl touches my ass....i concider it a "aint' never gonna happen"

 

LOL!!!! That's funny. I have been blonde but I don't see the resemblence. I take that as a huge compliment because that gurl is HOT!!!!

 

I would consider it harassment if I didn't want them to do it and they kept doing it. If it was just a one time deal I would just tell them not to again and if it kept happening I'd kick their ass.

Actually, someone got fired at the national park I worked at because they sexually harassed me.

 

I was so taken by that I forgot to post my response.

If anyone grabbed my ass I don't know what the heck I would do. Someone would probably have to slap the shock off of my face. I think if it was a one time thing I could let it go, forgive but if it was happening all the time, damn!!! I would think I had one hot ass. (no, I would probably hide it.) I wouldn't want to work someplace like that so if I did do anythng I would probably leave and file a suite.

 

If someone grabbed my Caucasian concave ass I would take it as a compliment.




........unless it was a dude, of course

 

i would still try anyways.

 

I'll take anything I can get..so no.

 

I had my ass grabbed about two weeks ago by someone who was drunk and had only seen around a few times. Ya it was not a good moment. My philosophy is that if I want you to grab my ass you will know it.

 

yes she is!!
and i dont take offense at all to someone grabbing my ass. its kinda sexy. when a guy does it, it gets weird though. unless its something we all do (way back when). lol, good times.

 

HUH?Guys grab your butt? I might have to see pictures lol.

 

You have the same eyes. (You have to forgive me I always think people look like people but when they say so about me I look at them strangely. (cause the people they chose never look like me.)

 

its sexual harassment even if you are attracted to the person and part of you likes it IF IT WAS UNWELCOMED. im not sayin you have to say.. ok you may grab my ass now. everytime.. but if someone grabs you unless you have let them know in some way that they are welcome to do so, they are risking you feeling harrassed. any time YOU feel harassed you are.. even if you are a vicious tease. which is unfair but another subject it still doesnt mean harassment is ok.. unless the people who did it really THOUGHT they had the ok.. in which case you let them know they were wrong. if they do it again.. that is true harassment. i mean i have to admit.. as a married woman, if some amazingly attractive guy grabbed my ass my body would probably say oh i like this but it would make me feel like shit and abused because i have promised myself to someone else. if i was single... it would depend on the situation... i have always been a little prude feeling about it and even if i had a crush on the guy.. if he did it in a way that was completely disrespectful and had no reason to believe he had the right then i would be offended.. but if i invited it in some way it would be ok. smacking someone on the butt in a way friendly funny way isnt always so bad.. it really just depends on how the person feels about it.. in which case the person should let it be known. if it continues its harassment.i have had a case of harrassment at work but the guy was really ugly and stupid.. but even if he was hot the way he did it i still would have been greatly offended. some loser came into the kitchen when i had both hands full and could not defend myself, came up behind me and grabbed and squeezed my boob. im still not over it. he was such an asshole he used to stair at me when i went into the kitchen and look me up and down and say " pretty" in german of course but it sounded just as idiotic. i think he had mental problems or something but still. that was harassment cuz he totally disrespected me constantly and made me feel gross.

 

this girl grabbed my ass a week ago after i was done singing karioke. i liked it.