tell my girlfriend she does'nt need 'em(women too please)

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by iloveit, Sep 13, 2009.

  1. iloveit

    iloveit Member

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    i'm iinsanely proud of my girlfriend and the hours of work she puts into her physique. i's a turn on just talkin' bout her but she's been dying for a boob job for awhile. i saw a girl in a link from here that has a very similar build only my chick is a little more fitnessy. but the arch of the back and high behind, the figure i guess, is very alike. this was the girl.. http://www.calendars.com/Swimsuit-M...Desk-Calendar/prod124349/?categoryId=cat00168. i say no way she needs them. she looks awesome and i know of one woman who was scarred forever. it's a little scary. how do i tell my gal not to do it? i like big boobs but i like a healthy happy girlfriend much more. worried.
     
  2. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    Just tell her how you feel, if she still wants to do it though you might have to deal with it. Tell her you think she is beautiful the way she is and you don't want her to get a boob job.
     
  3. iloveit

    iloveit Member

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    i've done that.think i'm gonna loset this battle. thx
     
  4. wawoo

    wawoo Member

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    Just tell her that you are satisfied with every part of her body, and fake boobs is for porn star.
     
  5. kindlethefire

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    that's the most precious thign to have, your boyfriend adore your body as is. that's how it should be, just make sure you tell her more than once. she'll love you when she realizes your being serious. every girl thinks their guy is lieing to them about it.
     
  6. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    I agree with the rest. I would keep telling, or a better word would be "reassuring" her, that she wouldn't need to get a boob job done. Some people require more reassurance than others, so be persistent.

    But if she still wants to get it done after going over the idea many times and for a long time, then I suppose you might have to respect her choice. I feel for you as I'm a fan of natural breasts myself. But she needs to be truly happy with her boobs as well, and if getting fake boobs is the only way she could be happy, then I guess she needs to do that.

    Sucky situation, this one... *shakes head*
     
  7. MaccaByrd

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    People still want fake breasts? I thought the male concensus was that they prefer them natural, whatever that may be. And the fact that there are so many shirts with quips like "These are real!" and that supermodels and bunnies and actresses are constantly denying that they've had work done in that area (whether it's true or not) tells me there must be a reason. I understand it was popular up until very recently and could almost not blame women for beginning to feel like it was something they had to do to boost their self-esteem, judging by what was out there. But I think society's attitude towards implants are starting to go the other way, now that we've had our fun and I think she may live to regret it.

    On a more human note, it's wonderful that you like her as she is and it sounds like she should be proud of her body. I hope she comes around and sees things in perspective. So to speak. ;)
     
  8. lostminty

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    i would think breast augmentation gives you tits that look great under clothing...that might be more appealing to some women. just want to be looked at i guess
     
  9. iloveit

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    i have been spending more time on her breasts during lovemaking. as i've said before she has a wonderous fuckable ass. she knows it and loves the attention. she does'nt have the cleavage to titty fuck but she loves me to slide my cock up and down her ass crack instead. even though she loves the ass attention. i flipped her over and said i wanted to slap my cock on her "perfect tits."
    she really seemd to like it and was fingering herself like crazy as i switched from breast to breast,puting in her mouth and her kind of spitting it out making it all soaked and then id just start smacking her tits again. i was ready after awhile to finish on her tits and she started saying "ooh i bet you'd wanna fuck (other girl with huge boobs we know) her huge fucking tits."
    such a turn on but then wham. i really don't think she's gonna give up on it. theother concern i have is with her cute face,body and the attention grabbing ass, if she gets a big pair of breasts she will just be viewed as a sex object everywhere. her ass is already hot and inviting in friggin sweatpants. she'll jus be too sexy.
     
  10. Carlfloydfan

    Carlfloydfan Travel lover

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    I hope your gf isn't that skinny, because that looks unhealthy, how skinny the girl in the pic is.
     
  11. iloveit

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    no. she has more meat overall. but she has that proportion and the really high behind.
     
  12. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    How long have you been with her?
    How serious is the relationship?
    Would the fake breasts turn you off?
     
  13. iloveit

    iloveit Member

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    hi everyone. been awhile. we've been going for over a year fake breasts aren't a turn off for me at all. i think the biggest turn on about them is that it usually says a womnan likes some attention to her tits.that's hot to me but w/my girlfriend i already have to deal with people turning around and saying out loud ,"hly shit or damn.
    towards the end of the summer a complete stranger,a woman commented on her butt. it's such a noticeable thing that it's like people think it's ok to comment about it even if they don't know her.it's crazy. i've been turned on by all the staring she gets but with huge boobs(she wants d's) she'll really look like a porn star. people would probably assume she's a stripper at least. That's a lot to deal with.
     
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