Sometimes i have a really strong craving/urge to get on my knees and suck some cock. Bf can't get head while standing up, he always has to be laying/sitting down. What can i do to fulfill this desire of mine? any suggestions?
Yea. We do that often.. I just like the act of him standing up fucking my face.. or standing up holding my hair back. Something other than him laying down.
Have him lean up against something, like a wall, or if you're outside, a tree. It will give him some support and make him feel like he's resting on something.
This is by far my favorite way to receive oral. Which isn't to say I'll turn down a blowjob otherwise, but there's just something dramatic about the standing/kneeling position. It's only when I'm standing that I can get those so-hard-it-almost-hurts erections, plus then you've got a completely unobstructed view. Which is what you want, being as half the stimulation of oral sex - to me at least - is visual. I was with a girl for a while who would only give head in bed, under the covers with the lights low, and would stop the moment I so much as snuck a peek under the covers. Luckily, now I'm with a completely beautiful girl who is much less inhibited, and doesn't think twice about getting her knees dirty in the living room with all the lights on and everything. Sometimes we even leave the curtains open on purpose, so should someone from the apartment facing mine be looking our way, they'd get quite a show. I like it most when she's got her hands on her knees and the only point of physical contact between us are her lips around my bulging member. Seems like the simplest way to do it, though I suspect a good deal of trust is required as well. Some, like the ex I mentioned, clearly perceive the act as 'degrading' or 'demeaning', and maybe see blowjobs in general as a stupid male domination fantasy or whatever. I think that's much too simplistic a way of putting it: the emotional exchange is a hell of a lot more complex than that. To me, it's not 'slutty' or 'dirty' so much as a rather beautiful thing of two (or more, he he) people getting beyond petty selfishness, and giving someone they love pleasure. How can anyone not like this? I always make sure to return the favor, and have a hard time imagining what the problem could be, in either direction. If that's what it took to get her off, I'd eat out her yoni hanging by my feet from the ceiling. But then maybe such are the kind of neurosis 'culture' and 'society' is - still, sexual revolutions or no - based on. At any rate, in an adult relationship, there's a time for the kind of cuddly, hand holding, sweet nothing whispering variety of making love your liberalminded parents taught you was what mommy and daddy did to show they loved each other. But then, when you grow up, hopefully, you'll lear there are more flavors beyond the basic natural act, and there's a time for hardcore pornographic loving just as well.
i like walking up to my wife in the evening when she's sittin in her chair and pullin out my dick, she just starts sucking on it
jesus, whats WRONG with young blokes these days?? Oh no, don't suck my dick while I'm standing, I have to be reclined. For fuck's sake.....I'll hang upside down from an airborne balloon wearing a Goldilocks costume while singing Waterloo by ABBA if my lady wants me to while she blows me..... No disrespect. Just sayin'.
when my gf give me head. Im the one on the knees. I usually kneel on the bed. she sits at an angle, with her head on pillows. then I can either pump in her mouth, or push her down and fuck her face.. come to think of it, when I eat her out im on my knees too, on the side with my head between her legs..
sometimes i'll lay on the edge of the bed, with my head hanging off. Deep throating is much easier that way.
It's frequently been remarked on in these forums that the best way to get the best out of any sexual experience is for both you & your partner to be as relaxed as possible, and In my mind, standing up is not the best position to be in order to relax. After all, it's not difficult to adopt exactly the same position whilst lying down - and far more comfortable for both parties.