Hello everyone, I do not dream often but last night I had a very strange dream that kind of made me nervous because I couldn’t figure out what any of it meant. So here is my dream.. ------------------------------------------------------------------------- It took place in a hotel somewhere nice, There was myself, my roommate, a best friend from another state, and my first love who I still communicate with to this day. We arrived at the hotel and I began a romantic relationship with my first love, we hit it off everything was incredible after that we left with smiles and joined the rest of the people, once we met up with them we decided to go to a party somewhere in the hotel, The next thing I knew, I woke up there was my roommate my best friend, and no first love, I panicked, so we went to try to find our room, which we could not figure out where it was, I couldn’t remember a thing from the night before, I kept asking my roommate and friend what happened my friend couldn’t remember either, and my roommate looked at us like we didn’t want to know what happened. At the end of the dream, I was speaking to my best friend, and asked him repeatedly what happened the night before, and said he wasn’t sure but he thinks he may have hooked up with someone named Jeff (my friend is not gay in real life) ------------------------------------------------------------------------ When I woke up at 5 am this morning the dream felt so real to me, like I still needed to find my first love, everything was so vivid, and clear and it caught me off guard because I have never had a dream quite like this one, Does anyone out there have any insight as to what this dream may mean ? Thank you, OSnapple
Hi OSnapple, here is a suggestion but please know it is just that. You are your own best interpreter - everything else is just ment to help you find your own doorknob. Often when we feel like confronted with a dream, we are confronted rather with how we have learned to see ourselfes, and the attitude we put in between ourselfes and life. Like, we were taught to charge others for our own happiness and go for cliche life and drama. We learned to live in co-dependant relationships. But it seems we have not learned to see the holy grail is right where our own journey leads and the gift of life is not somewhere else, but in our own hands from the moment of being born through the moment of dying, and beyond. But then, who would teach us so ? Just imagine all parts of the dream are you. That which you miss most you already found. Imagine all the others are your teachers, each of them. And even as they are teaching you, you teach them; and it is all about love. It is also about feeling lost and still trust into Self and that it all makes sense. And so you have just changed in dream ... and now, even as you bring the awareness of the dream back into waking life, waking life provides you with its own questions. But what you do with it gives the dream meaning. Got into rambling :tongue: ... hope it makes sense.
Since you dreamdt of your first love then chances are that you are about to meet someone in real life sho has the same qualities or that reminds you of her. Be on the look out, be very aware because she could be a waitress, a check out girl, etc. When you feel that sense of dejavu do not let her out of your grasp, do not hesitate. If you do then you will miss her, you will lose her, and your dream will come true - that you can't find her again. For me, if I dream of the ex-wife then I know that I will soon meet a woman who is wifey material. If I dream of a certain ex-lover then I know that I am about to meet a very passionate lover, but one that may be devious. On the other hand, if I meet another certain lover then I know that I will soon meet a woman who had the same type of characteristics as the woman that I should have married instead. Get your flirting engine in gear.