My boyfriend and I did some experimenting last night... And he wanted me to like massage his asshole... and I did a lot more than that I ended up licking it and stuff... and he loved it, it got him so hard. I was just wondering, how many guys also enjoy this and what else can I do for him to make it better!?
A lot of guys love anal stimulation - nothing wrong with that. Maybe you should have him try a vibe there or a butt plug.
I enjoy anal stimulation, although I haven't masturbated anally in a long time. I'm heterosexual by the way. Anal play is not something I require, though. If my partner is comfortable with the idea, then she and I could experiment. If not, she is more than welcome to stay away from my anus. I think the best way is to ask him what he likes, what he feels you could do to enhance the experience, that sort of thing. Someone else suggested toys, maybe that's something you two could look into as well. Start with something small enough, though.
How do you figure so? Definition; Gay –adjective 1. Homosexual Definition; Homosexual Homosexual — noun 1. a person who is sexually attracted to members of the same sex. Now that I've cleared that up and educated you a little on some basic knowledge, a women experimenting with anal play on a man is in fact NOT gay. It is a person preference of both parties to participate in this act. I myself thought this was completely wrong at one point in my life, but my girlfriend introduced the idea to me. It was a very enjoyable experience for both myself and her. Maybe you should open up your mind a little more. Can't knock it until you try it.....
You just have to experiment and see what he likes. You can always use a small toy or a finger while you stroke his cock or suck him off. I really enjoy stimulation as an addition to anything being done, but I don't care for it too much as the only means of attention. Just start small and slow and see where it goes from there.
"Gay" is actually a recent derivative invented during the past 20 years or so, and should, by rights, have no bearing to sexuality whatsoever. It's true meaning simply beans "Happy", so if any form of sex, Anal or otherwise, be it with a member of the same or opposite gender makes you happy, then, yes, it can most certainly be described as being "Gay". Still, such is the evolution (or devolution) of the English language.
///////////another part of the history of the term 'gay' goes back to the 17th century, where female whores were called 'gay ladies'........somehow or other, it got 'transferred' onto gay men, who, I guess by some folks' standards, could be considered 'morally loose', as the 'gay' ladies were in their day...........just stating facts, making no judgements at all!!!:sunny:
Very narrow minded! If he enjoys anal play it does not make him gay! wanting to fuck another man would make him bi/gay. just one more thing in recent medical studys people who are homophobic were more sexauly aroused than non homophopics when watching gay porn. Tryin. To hide something?
I have yet to be the recipient of anal play, but I'd love to try it (my wife is shy and a little nervous - we're working on that). I KNOW that she enjoys anal play and I'd love to feel the sensations I give her (we have not had full penetration yet - not sure if that will happen). I'd like to see if the hype with the prostate is as real as my experience with g-spots... I'm very heterosexual and not gay, btw.
I like it, but the wife doesn't and rarely goes "out back". Although the other day she got in the shower with me and gave me a hand job with one hand and the other went out back. It was AMAZING!!!!!! She can do that anytime she wants.
My wife and I are into it. We have a strap-on that has been used on more than one occasion. The male prostate, which happens to be accessible through the rectum has been compared to the female g-spot. and the anus has a tremendous amount of nerve endings and can be very pleasurable. As noted at the beginning of the post... "my wife and I" my wife is female. I am male. We are straight. There is nothing wrong with experimenting with what you enjoy.
I'm straight and I've never engaged in assplay with a girl. If she was willing to, I'd definitely try it. I've heard prostate or "a-spot" orgasms are intense. I wouldn't let what could purportedly be the strongest orgasm a man can experience, pass me by because I was worried about appearing gay or something like that.