Staring at someone else while in a relationship

I was hanging out with one of my bestfriends who is a guy, we were eating buffalo wings, and he was staring at another girl, and they both was staring at each other for the whole time. But he has a "good" girlfriend.

Do you think it wrong for someone in a relationship to look at someone else that they are attracted to? Is that rude?

 

No, there's nothing wrong with it.
Personally I see good looking people, I might have a little stare, it's no big deal. I mean it's not like a pretty face makes me even want to cheat.

 

I think its entirely possible to appreciate another persons physical beauty and not want to jump on that. If, however, a leer like the one you described occurs, bet your ass i'll playfully shoulder slap you with a side of "WTF!?" face.

 

+1

The other thing that you mentioned was YOU were hanging out with him. Personally, girlfriend or no girlfriend I would be like, hey over here buddy.

 

He was staring at her for a long time tho, I guess that doesn't matter then.

 

True, but there has definitely been a time or two where hubby said "Daaaaaamn" I looked...and yeah. That reaction was warranted. But then again, he tells me all the time how sexy and gorgeous he thinks I am. :love:

 

looking is fine, but staring for an entire meal is creepy as shit whether you're single or not.

 

I find that when I am love with someone I have no urge to stare at others, but I think it is probably different for everyone.

 

lol agreed, but she was staring back at him too

 

did she have any mayo on her cheek, lips ect.. .. ??

 

when someone is staring at you, you really only have 2 options. one of them is to stare back.

 

Guys like looking at pretty girls. Always have, always will. It has nothing to do with anything else. Your problem is your own insecurities.

 

If I see a girl I like I have to look away or I go all a-blush and jizz in my pants.

 

lol nope. she was just a pretty girl.

Thats not my boyfriend by the way, and of course everyone is attracted to beauty, but when you stare at someone for a while, that mean you showing that your interested, you should only do that if your single.

 

If my mother caught my father looking at another women, she will probably break the windows of his car

 

Then your mother has insecurities that she needs to work on.

 

No she dosen't, I think most married women would do that. Its call real life buddy, it happens

It has nothing to do with insecurities anyway, ur in a committed relationship, why stare at a girl for a long ass time(showin that ur interested), I know u would be pretty mad if your significant other did the same.

Taking a peak is fine, but staring, thats OD

 

It has everything to do with insecurities. Looking and even staring have nothing to do with a committed relationship anymore than a casual relationship. Guys like to look at pretty things. We stare at things we think are really pretty. It has absolutely nothing to do with a relationship. We will always look and will sometimes stare. We are wired that way.

 

^it's not just males

aesthetics move us, occasionally make us want to move our sex parts.

Nothing is wrong with that. It's just nature's pull on our babymakers.

It's all perfectly natural

 

wow, your dad needs to file for divorce.