Spoiling your boyfriend.

So do you girls like to spoil your boyfriends?

 

It's them who should spoil us... but well... if they really wish to be spoiled...

 

a good relationship should be a give and take exchange.

 

Im broke...but emotionally I spoil him bc hes a musician and I deal w/ a lot of cancelled plans, and late nights. if that counts

 

he likes having the house organized a certain way and i try to help him with that, ie close the curtains at night, opena t morning (which he normally does), get bowls and spoons for breakfast together in the morning, make sure lights are out before he has to check them, make the bed wtih his extra blanket lain out for him, light the candle and turno n the music he likes for bed, etc. i brusha nd braid his hair sometimes (longer than mine :drool: ), set the alarm for him in the morning (if im not gonna be there) or crawl into bed to wake him up, help haul groceries (by foot, no car), cook for him (including making separate meals or parts of meals because he doesnt like some things that i love), etc. its mostly small stuff, because he doesnt really like big indulgences. it probably comes across more as a partnership than spoiling per se, but neither of us are used to partners regularly doing all these awesome small things so for us, its being spoilt/indulged

 

Allonym that sounds right awesome.

 

nope. i used to..ya know, do his laundry constantly, clean everything, did anything he asked of me....and then he gets lazy and feels like he can be a prince.
Spoiling anybody should always be in moderation.

 

I love "spoiling" my boyfriend, I dont even think Im spoiling him, it just comes out, I think of it as treating him with love

 

I don't get spoiled, so I don't see why he should.

 

oh yeah...i'm all for loving as much as possible. and i'm not saying you shouldnt do their laundry, or things like that, just dont take over everything and let them sit back and do nothing....and vice versa. it has to be a partnership.

 

He spoils me, and i don't neccessarily spoil him back as much as smother him with love which he indulges in thoroughly. so, i'de say we are pretty keen with eachother as far as that goes.

 

I'm old fashioned...believe it or not.

I take care of my man...I will cook for him, clean for him, do pretty much everything for him...anything he asks...

Of course, he will do the same...we love and adore one another.

I guess since we don't get to spend a whole lot of time together, when we do get to spend time with one another, we spoil the crap out of eachother. I don't know...I saw how my grandparents' relationship was before my grandpa passed away...and that's what I want...my grandmother took care of my grandpa and he loved and adored her back. I loved seeing them hold hands and kiss one another...that's what I want. I model my relationship after theirs.

I'm old fashioned

 

I dont have a boyfriend, but I do spoil the men in my life. Regardless wether they're just friends or fwb. I dunno why, but I love taking care of my men.

 

I do. I'm happy when he's happy and vice versa. It's just so much sweeter that way.

 

spoiling a man is the way to go. they will spoil you back. 18 years + 2 kids and still spoiling him. it's an awesome way to live.

 

Sounds like my mother. :tongue:

 

Not as much as I should considering he spoils the crap outta me. i try to cook for him and clean-up the house on the days he is working and I'm at home. I should really do more for him, I just feel SO tired with how early I get up.

 

absolutely! of course, in dave's estimation, spoiling him means "don't be a twat."

 

That's kinda how it is with us as well. I work ridicilously long hours whereas Tim works from home half the time and not such long hours. He spoils me so much and always makes me feel like a princess. But whenever I get a chance I spoil him too. Like on weekends, I often cook him breakfast, tidy the house, wake him up with a blowjob.. Hahah. :tongue:

 

hmm i think he tries to spoil me a bit more then i spoil him but i make it up in other ways!