I'm dating this girl. We've only been on one date but we've been together a couple of other times. I've only had one other girlfriend and it didn't last long. We dated for like two weeks and then I noticed that certain things like her putting my name in her AIM profile and the heart in her myspace name and things like that. This girl that I'm dating now is so amazing. I can't stop thinking about her and I know that she really really likes me because I'm different from the other guys that she's dated (I'm nice). I'm just afraid of losing her love just like my other girlfriend. I thought that I was in a depressed state when my other girlfriend broke up with me but I can't even imagine the pain that would come is this girl broke up with me. I know that she still likes me now because she texts me asking what I'm doing and stuff like that but I'm afraid that she's going to get bored of me or something. How can I keep this relationship real and stop my worrying?
You have to do different types of things you may not be used to doing. Take her places that could mean a lot to the two of you. Listen to her, a woman will tell you everything she wants out of you, you just have to listen to what she says. Parks, amusement parks, the zoo things that are out of the ordinary, you have to show her how much you care about her and try to do it without spending a lot of money. Be creative she will see how much you care and that will all the sureness of longevity that you are seeking. But be sure not to do too much give her space so that she doesn't feel like your trying to take up all of her time.
