Soul Mate

Anyone believe that when you meet your soul mate, you will wind up together, and somehow you just know that they are your soul mate, even though the other person hasn't figured it out yet?

 

would beleiving in a soul be a requirement to beleiving in a soul mate?

 

Once, but it very easily could be my imagination. I guess time and destiny will tell There is plenty of time to meet another one too who really clicks with me on that level that says something truly special about us. I believe people come into our lives at certain times to teach us things, or learn something from us, and sometimes leave when they are done. I think things come to us when we need them, and we all have angels if we just listen to and talk to them. I believe in synchronocity, and everything building up to something bigger, and to some greater lesson that you still need to learn or experience.

 

i believe in twin souls, and the like. Don't think you always wind up together though. Sometimes the lesson you are here to learn is best learnt walking alone.

 

I am trying to figure that out myself.

 

you know, i keep hoping for a soul mate.
maybe one day...

 

if not in this life, maybe the next, eh? Who is to say you didn't meet your soul mate already, but that it wasn't yet the time? Or if your soul mate is even the proper gender for you to be sexually compatiable? Maybe your Grandmother was your soul mate? Maybe it's your best friend? Why does it have to be a lover?

 

Doesn't everyone want someone to come home to at the end of the day? Someone who is not only a lover, but also a friend? I want someone to wrap me up in their arms and make me forget, each and every night, that the world exists, and that we are the only ones that are alive.

 

that pretty much sums it up for me too. i met my twin about a decade ago, but it just wasnt the right time for us. maybe we'll spiral back together this time around, maybe not. <shrug> all i can do is live my best life, and wish him all the love and happiness in the universe.

as far as soulmates, go, i think that we have soul 'families' and that there are groups of souls that we incarnate with. we have many soulmates, only one twin.

 

Oh, I get that. I totally get that. But does it have to be your "soul mate"? And can their only be one Soul Mate... can't their be more than one?

I think it just depends on your spiritual beliefs. Christains believe one thing, Hindus believe another... and so on and so forth. My beliefs are different than most people I know.

I wasn't attacking you for wanting a soul mate. Sorry if it came off that way.. i need to use the "smiley faces" more, i guess. I was just trying to make you feel better about the apparent lack of one in your life by giving you other places to look for a Soul Mate... options and such. My best friend is a soul mate of mine... my Grandmother was another...

Hang in there... keep your eyes, heart and mind open and you never know who will walk into your life.

 

I have always thought that there are certain souls that we choose to be born with, near or around.... our soul "families". Its awesome to hear it coming from someone else!

 

little volcano


i think some souls are attracted to eacg other more than others.

best friends? soul friends? same thing?

 

i'm looking for my bestfriend/soulmate...so yeah. i guess you could say the same thing.

 

nope

 

I'm sorry that you feel that way...guess it would be nice to have an independent streak though...i'm just lonely is all.

 

icedteaprincess....i didn't feel as if you were attacking me at all...i just felt i should clarify myself a little more...thanks for the response...advice is well taken with me.

 

you can be lonly or not .....i just dont want to not be smothered and comprimised for the sake of company ...when i was your age i had one .....but big fires ritly run out of fuel fast n we couldnt have took much more than 5 years of that shit ......i just dont think that the most special thing one has with someone should be as singular and excluding of others as the desire you stated ......real love has roomj for the whole world as well as just yourself , not the co dependent binary thing .

 

i have to agree with you there...but only to an extent. Real love extends to everyone, true...but i'm not making love to the world either. i'm looking for someone to hold at night, as i said. and i don't want it to the point where the world is an outside object, only that the bad things don't exist all the time.

 

i hear ya and i would as well , its just that im not putting up with anyones shit or hoping anything cool can last forever ....hell even people who arnt afraid to be alone want love n company too !.....gotta be real though ....cause fakin it hurts .

 

it works wonderfully for all the normal people as a system, but some of us who don't fit that line of best (fit rather) have a tendency to fall by the roadside, out in the cold....