and so i ask, what is the deal with opposites? i keep getting mixed messages on how opposites attract, and then how opposites are horrible for each other.. am i wasting time pursuing a pisces? is it gonna turn out a horrible mess, by astrology's standards?
I think "complementary" is more appropriate than "Opposite". One lacks qualities the other possess. By the way, I see you're 17. Then you're yet to reach the complete mental structure that your sun sign (or any sign) projects. Opposite is not really a horrible combination if one is male and the other is female. This relationship is driven more by physical than mental attraction which however clashes with Virgo inclined towards platonic part. Then again Virgo doesn't like illusions i.e. straying from facts. But Pisces tend to live in illusions. But judging a relationship only by Sun signs doesn't reveal the complete picture. At least the rising signs and moon signs are also to be considered if not the whole birth chart.
so what youre saying is im better off with an aquarius or aries than with a pisces? or the opposite? by the way i dont identify with a lot of virgo traits..
oh so those signs are the worst for me... so how exactly does a meeting of opposites pan out in astrology? i know a couple other pisces people that im not exactly fond of... but this one seems a bit different from the others. at the same time i can see some similar pisces traits going on under the surface that im afraid might rear their ugly head if we enter into a relationship (or if im just wasting my time trying to pursue the relationship in the first place)
This clearly shows that some planets especially the ascendant of the Piscean here may be in zodiac(s) compatible with Virgo. If you could at least post your chart it would have been possible to tell you if you are wasting your time with some confidence. I've already told you the nature of the relationship. And you already started getting repulsive hints. At this point, I think you can go on with the relationship casually until you are sure. Virgos don't go at all with Aries and Aquarius! They go with Capricorn, Taurus, Cancer and Scorpio. Well, it's true one should learn from mistakes but knowing that it will be a mistake beforehand is not a bad thing especially in love relationship that shakes our lives with such vigor.
this is my chart: http://i39.photobucket.com/albums/e1...e060/chart.jpg i had posted it in another thread, the post your chart thread, as you may have guessed, lol. in all honesty i dont really grasp the concept of the moon/rising/everything else... i'd make a horrible astrologer lets put it that way :]
i just want to say that pretty much all the signs i am good for i really dont get along with... i highly doubt id ever find a capricorn worth dating, as most i know are @$$holes (no offense to any caps here) and cancer and scorpio are way too emotional for me. taurus maybe for their sense of humor, but they have a bad side thats difficult to get along with. i like gemini libra and sag, i get on well with them and had a couple relationships with those in the past that went rather well (but obviously not perfect since im single nowadays) pisces i was unsure of until now thanks though :]
You are only 17 Flopdoodle69 and way too young to understand what is really going on here in life. But one day you will. You have moon in Libra, Venus in Leo that makes you feel attracted to Gemini, Libra or Sagittarius since they have similar emotional and romantic nature. But these are not all that you count on in love. It's the matching of soul that matters most which is the sun sign. By the way, I myself am a Capricorn.
This may sound funny coming from an astrologer, but don't worry about. Relationships are more complex than a Sun sign, and a good astrologer will look beyond that. Bottom line: if you like someone, then go for it. If it doesn't work out, then move. Stay away from ax murderers though.
i once had a relationship with a capricorn and it was the most awful thing to ever happen to either of us... the combination of us both was something that the fates should never permit to happen again btw out of curiosity does anybody see anything in my chart that might cause this? my mom is a capricorn and we have an extremely straining and dualistic relationship i also have a capricorn friend with whom there are major troubles at all times, very dualistic relationship there too
We have twelve sun signs here. If you judge all Capricorns by one or two relationships ..... that's horrible. Those that you experienced may have other issues in their charts resulting in your impression. Anyway, let me tell you two secrets about Capricorns that I think you should know about, 1) Capricorns don't reveal their soft side until you gain their confidence completely which takes quite a while but it's worth giving it a try. 2) Capricorns are late bloomers. So, you'll find a Capricorn of your age quite boring and extra-serious. But they become younger and free spirited later on when others turn serious and boring. Capricorns' romanticism has practical values that you will not understand until you come to some maturity.
Well you have rising sign in Libra and moon in Libra too and Libra has most astrologically negative relationship with Capricorn. It might cause what you're experiencing. But it is sort of external.
i know it might sound like im judging capricorns on a rather superficial or unjustified level, but trust me, i can intuitively sense the incompatibility between that sign and i. and it isn't only 2 capricorns i've had issues with, literally almost every capricorn ive come into contact within my lifetime has caused me some form of great stress. the worst part is, they are abundant, and i seem to attract them or something. ill agree with what you say about cap, about taking time to break them, but truthfully i've broken many a cap before and what i saw was rather... scary... to say the least. i view capricorns as highly emotional and even a little unstable its kinda like trying to break open a treasure chest just to get a pile of crap
You have your Venus in Leo. That suggests you seek glamorous elements in romantic relationship. You like people who has dramatic, stunning and dazzling personalities. But your sun being in Virgo you require practical values like trust, security. So, a Capricorn with Aries, Libra, Gemini or Sagittarius Ascendant/moon may be likable to you. By the way, Virgos remain close to facts and logic. But you have your Mercury in Leo which suggests jumping to conclusions. Anyway, if you don't like Capricorns then don't go for them.
there was only ever 1 capricorn that i didnt completely hate and not get along with.. and we're still friends, but we don't get to talk very often anymore. she retained certain traits that i still didnt like... like random mood swings (much more minor than most other caps i know) and the signature unhinged sexuality.. which completely throws me off. but other than that we got along real well because we were both very practical and well mannered and kind to a lot of people, and we always did a smashing job on assignments together. i dont know.. i guess astrology just doesn't work for me. by the way, i dont seek glamor or drama in a relationship; the most important thing for a relationship to me is a meeting of the minds; it has to be balanced and fair, and that means my partner showing the same open-mindedness and appretiation of another's point of view that i show them. plus i tend to be a bit of a pushover, which can really twist my thoughts sometimes, so i'd appreciate someone who doesn't take advantage.
Astrology is not a technique that it can't apply to you. It does. It's just that you are not thinking the right way. And like I've been always telling you, you're too young. Speaking of myself, I do go very well with Virgos that I know of and vise versa. Well, it's interesting to talk to a Virgo who HATES Capricorns so much! If you are interested and have time, come have a chat with me in one of the chatrooms in this forum. Post me the date and time.
