Someone talks behind your back, but is ultra helpful/nice to your face?

Get 1 of your friends that this someone doesnt know and get them to make friends without your connection, get your friend to say bad things about you and see if the someone defends you.

Or just assume the best of someone untill you have reason to believe otherwise.

 

I'm sure it happens on a daily basis.....especially at work....but you just realize after awhile that there is nothing you can do to stop these people, besides being kind to them no matter what.

 

People will always talk crap.. best thing to do is just be nice to people and don't worry about it

 

well you dont know, unless you catch them in the act, or if someone lets you know. But I wouldnt let it bother you to much infact I suggest you get used to it. Theres always going to be someone like that

 

Usually I can count on my friends or family unit/tribe/loved ones to give me a heads up.

 

Exactly. This is a working relationship period.

 

I know someone who does that to me but then again i do it to her so neither of us care very much plus i hardly talk to her and once i enter yr10 we hav different pathways and subjects so I'll see her even less I jus ignore it - it was actually quite funny!!

 

*gasp* i used to be BEST friends with EXACTLY this type of girl!!!
word eventually got around-other freinds telling me "hey, presley's telling everyone you're a lying whore bag slut!"
yeah, it gets around. all she said were lies, so i eventually knew who to go to when i heard em.lol.

your other friends should let you know, shouldnt they?

 

Best thing to do is talk all sorts of stuff behind their back.
It makes them question why the fuck they think theyve got the right to do that with you.
Usually they'll throw a strop - and youll show them up to be the pathetic weazels that they are.Laugh in their face - to rub salt into their wounds while they go off on one.

However , remember we all speak about people in ways which shouldnt be taken literally.If I call my friend a faggot to someone else , it doesnt literally mean I think he goes round dressed as the Village People.
Yes I know childish example , but u get my meaning?

If theyre being all "friendly" just say "what did u mean about xx"
When they act all innocent and deny it , just be all nice and say "oh thats ok , I was just about to force your face into a food blender" , then laugh.

BTW it helps if u do it with a white cat on your lap - like Blofeld in the Bond films.
Sorry , my altered realities all blur into one

 

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