So, I've got a bit of a problem

so heres the deal. i've lived next door to this certain girl for the biggest part of my life. as kids we would even play together. a couple times we did some things with our groups of friends that was quite erotic. however, the last 6 years or so, I've gained quite a bit of weight and now she doesn't even talk to me any more? i think its because I've gotten fat that she doesn't like me anymore. but the worst part is she has gained a bunch of weight too. we always used to talk about who we would lose our virginity to, and we a couple times said it would be to each other. i'm pretty sure she has already lost hers a couple time. i'm still saiving myself for her, because i really do like her. what should I do now? should i lose weight and try to keep going after tainted meat? i mean shes hot, and since she gained weight her boobs are bigger than ever. or should i just give up on her and try to find another girl that will take my virginity so she sees that i'm not wasting my time on her anymore? i've seen her naked several times, and i know shes seen me naked too, because our windows are right across from each other. last weekend, her and her girl friends were in her room and i came in from the shower and i noticed them looking at me. so i pulled my towel off and walked around my room naked. that just laughed so i started fondeling my balls and then bent over, and i heard them screaming and they closed the blinds. that really hurt. i just don't think i should waste my time on her anymore even though my heart is with her.

 

if shes gonna ignore you because of a weight issue.. FORGET HER!

 

but it might not be the weight issue at all. i forgot to mention that she told a friend of mine she had a crush on another neighbor

 

lose the weight for yourself, not for anyone else.

and if she's gonna judge you for your weight gain, after already being friends well, forget her.

she also might now know you like her, so you might have to just tell her that you do and see where it goes from there.

 

but she has to know i like her. i walked around naked in front of her. i thought she liked me too because she did the same thing in her window a couple weeks ago how do you think i know how big her boobs are?

 

then i would go ask her what the hell is up! take control... if she still ignores you then... i guess it wasnt meant to be.

how old is she?

 

umm i cant help but think yer user name is a direct consequence of waiting on this girl

 

i agree with fitzy, if you want to lose weight do it for yourself, and if she doesn't like you now just because of your weight she sounds rather superficial and you're probably better off without her...if you want to be with her tell her and work things out but don't put yourself out just to be hurt by someone who could very much have changed now that you're older and you might just be liking the girl you knew years ago
as for the whole walking around naked thing, she might have just been doing that to show off and it's not necessarily a sign of her liking you..
i hope everything works out for you

 

she is 19 almost my age..... but the thing is, i'm sorta shy around her now that ll this happened

 

just walking around naked doesn't mean she knows you like her.

just go over and talk to her

 

i'm just sorta hurt about the fact that i don't think shes a virgin anymore. i really don't know if i want to put my weiner in her now that other guy's have been in there. i guess you cuould call me jealous in a way but it just seems icky to me

 

dood at 20,,yer gonna be hard pressed to find a place to stick yer dick in where no man has before..

unless ya plan on bein a child molester..


just fuck her an get it over with..

 

why is it so much to ask that girls would wait until being married to have sex? i mean here I am and I haven't had sex thats why i was waiting for her because i though all the other girls were sluts for putting out to so many different guys.

 

thats just a myth we all beleived in high school.....i know a girl that acts slutty just to get attention.....and shes never even kissed anyone

btw, are you sure she lost her verginity?

and how long has it been scince you two talked

 

and btw....the older you get, the less girls their are gonna be that have not had sex......
if you wanna find a wife or something that hasnt.....look for a promise ring.....or do it wile theirs still some left.....

otherwise your gona have to deal with it

btw, if it is the weight problem and your sure....shes not worth thr trouble or the time

 

i'm not totally sure she lost it, but one of her friends told me she had sex with two guys at a party a couple weeks ago. i don't know if i believe it or not, because she just might be trying to see how jealous I get. I talked to her about a week ago about a couple things, but not about any of this. its almost just too akward to talk to her anymore. i just want her all for myself and don't want anyone else touching her, especially her vagina.

 

wow, just wow, you're really possesive over a girl who may or may not even like you

its her life and she'll live it the way she wants - if she's already had sex, so what? you can't control other people

 

dude........go get laid...

 

its not that easy. no girls seem to like me

 

Just go up and tell her, stop playing with them balls and use em. Tell her you care and your feeling and get it over with. If she turns her back then onward with your life.