So I don't get it....

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by YellowBellyHippy, Nov 2, 2005.

  1. YellowBellyHippy

    YellowBellyHippy Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Lately I have had a few PM's and comments by other means criticizing me. That Im *really* pale, that my tattoo on my arm is unattractive. That my hair color doesn't look good on me. Later these same people will comment on how beautiful I am and blah blah blah.

    Are they psycho or am I? Why are people quick to say something rude and then turn around and compliment you?
     
  2. Therefore...

    Therefore... Antidentite

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    People are nuts. That's why I don't put too much stock in what they have to say. Sounds like you need to do the same.
     
  3. YellowBellyHippy

    YellowBellyHippy Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Well Im not too offended by it...I just think its strange behavior, you know?
     
  4. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    "Guilty until proven innocent" tactic? Hmmm, that's weird... But geeez, I think THEY are the ones with issues, if you ask me.

    Your skin looks good. If you're happy with your tattoos, it's all good. And you certainly make a beautiful blonde.

    Some people, ya know...
     
  5. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

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    dont listen to them. why should you care? they don't know who you really are, who are they to judge based on what they see on your pics, which by the way i find very nice ;) dont worry!!
     
  6. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    and you care what the say why??
    I see a nice bit of ink on a chica who has better things to do than lay around and get skin cancer.
     
  7. YellowBellyHippy

    YellowBellyHippy Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    LOLOLOLOL skin cancer :)


    Well my cam has a freaky ass flash too thats ultra bright so Im betting it would make a black girl look white!
     
  8. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    I think certain other people here have also experienced the similar type of flames by some judgmental people. I don't know what they got in their PM inboxes, but they have had some rather insensitive comments on certain threads here.

    Ignoring such ignorant minds, as others have said above, would be the way to go. That's what I try to do with them narrow-minded people, though, I often have trouble keeping my mouth shut, LOL. :p
     
  9. Nolan14

    Nolan14 Member

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    ppl that take enough time to PM u on your looks should not waste time critizizeing maybe thay have 2 much time
     
  10. Nisha

    Nisha Forlorn.

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    prepare for preach-i-ness

    i dont want to get involved on who is sending you those pms.... holy observant? i think pale skin can actually be very beautiful on some and you got that tatoo because you like it. you're the one that has to live with it not them so make the best of it.

    as for your hair well, i think it goes fine with your face. i'm a brunette girl and for halloween i had this blonde marylin monroe ish wig and everyone was like ehhh? but i'm not putting it on for them just like you dyed your hair for you and no one else.

    right?
     
  11. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    Well said, Nisha. *salutes*
     
  12. YellowBellyHippy

    YellowBellyHippy Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    LOL Well apparently Nomad12 doesn't like my sig pic either because he also sent me a PM saying that it won't stop "staring" at him.

    I told him that I *think* there is a user option that will turn off sig pics here.
     
  13. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    Are you sure that's because he DOESN'T like it? Maybe he just gets all distracted by it when he can't afford to, LOL.
     
  14. YellowBellyHippy

    YellowBellyHippy Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Oh phooey, I don't care anymore... love me hate me... it doesn't matter ;)
     
  15. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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  16. Libertine

    Libertine Guru of Hedonopia

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    I love you, YBH. You're a beautiful person. Everytime I think of you I hear the song "China Cat Sunflower" by The Grateful Dead. The only other people that I think of a song when I think them are Penny and Bride.

    You are a great person and always know that Libertine is FOR YOU.
     
  17. YellowBellyHippy

    YellowBellyHippy Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Awww...there is the love I wanna hear in here! I love Libertine :) And many others too(you know who you are) Damn it, I love everyone.
     
  18. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    Ok then, how about we turn this thread into the "YBH Appreciation Thread" from here on? :) Like I said somewhere, all these wonderful Hip Forum people deserve these threads dedicated to their beauty and grace.
     
  19. Imagine17

    Imagine17 Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Yeah there is an option to turn off sig pics. But yes to answer your question they are odd, not you.
     
  20. FlyingBurritoBro

    FlyingBurritoBro Sing Me Back Home

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    I hearby profess and proffer my undying love and devotion for the woman known as YellowBellyHippy. Her posts are full of witt and her nudies give me erections of tensile strength similar to cold blue steel. And you gotta love that.
     

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