Sick people and dating

What do you do if you're fatigued almost all the time, can't really go to most functions, don't really get along with most people, quite often can't think straight, can't eat many things and doing the things that normal people do is a constant exhausting struggle....I mean, what does one in this state have to offer another person? Their apparent strength in dealing with these problems? Their undivided love?

I'm not whining or anything. I like myself, and my life, and all the pain that goes along with it. I wouldn't want to be anyone else, but I really don't see how I can date a "normal" person, as I don't think I can give a normal person what they would want, ie. lots of fun, excitement, financial security etc.

What do you think of this? I don't really have a lot of experience in relationships so I don't know how they work, do they really have to be that normal?

 

you know my opinion homeboy.

I'd go for a girl with something like well managed diabetes, or epilepsy.

 

I don't know, for me normality only exists in superficial observation. When you start delving into people's lives even a little bit, you start seeing things that don't conform to pre-conceived standards.

Granted there are degrees...but even though this is a bit cliche, I don't think love has anything to do with normality.

I'm infatuated with a girl right now, and the fact that she's allergic to wheat makes her more endearing to me, not less.

In fact, wherever I see love- I see one symptom: people's "flaws" become endearing to their lover.

Edit: I for one love to be friends or lovers with people who can't go to too many functions. I know I can't, myself. :cheers2:

 

Do you have some type of chronic illness?

You could always find a depressed girl, they like nothing more than to be sick so they have excuses to stay on the couch in their pajamas

 

I have some form of chronic fatigue syndrome. Depression annoys the hell out of me because I am generally a pretty out there, life loving person, but I just can't physically do much. But then again, we'd make a pretty good combo, she with the functioning body and I with the functioning mind, maybe I could get her to carry me everywhere.

 

I pictured that. and she was using an external frame chair thing.

 

I suppose I'll just have to depend on my oversized package to keep the ladies interested.

 

way harder to pull off than you'd think

I mean, tights look gay, and, I mean, wearing a speedo everywhere?

 

There's nothing sexier than a couch potato girl for me. Couch potatoes just fuck more, period- instead of wasting time buying clothes and attending elegant dinners.

No excuses needed! :biggrin:

 

I'd go nuts if the dude I was fucking didn't want to do anything ever.

I mean, I'm all for sitting around getting drunk and humping all day. But I do like to do stuff.

Try amphetamines. F'realz. Adderall. You'll be running around like an idiot, cleaning yr house from top to bottom.

 

It's about balance. I have to get out. I have to hike and sail spend a weekend at the beach at least once a month and knock around the workshop and build stuff and work on my boats.

But Friday nights belong to The Doctor.

 

But then I just looked at yr album and decided I'd totally sit around on a couch and never go out and do anything, so long as you weren't too lethargic to continually secks.

Let's face it. There's some people in my pants I want you to meet.

 

toolmaggot is funny.

 

Difficult situation. I suppose there isn't an easy answer, nor an easily imaginable answer, until its come knockin on your door. Life's surprising like that.

 

Or. You could just get a bitch pregnant, then she has no choice but to put up with yr fatigue. 'Cause face it. Who wants to get with a bitch that has a kid?

If only every bitch thought like my mother.

She married my dad after knowing him for like, two weeks. Why? She knew he wouldn't cheat on her or leave her and thought he'd make pretty babies. Twenty years later, they don't hate each other that much.

 

I'm a lot funnier when I'm naked.

 

yeah, my folks met on a blind date and got hitched after 6 months. I think its cute.

 

pix plz

 

So I'm not completely naked. But I'm getting there.

 

You're right. You are funny naked.