Should I rat her out?

So my I'm pretty pissed off at my ex-gf, and I have something on her. She was taking distance ed courses at college where she was suppose to find a supervisor (not a friend, or relative, and someone of authority) to supervise her doing tests and exams. Well I allowed her to use my brother-in-laws name and address with a fake identity so she could pick up the tests and exams herself and do them at her leisure without supervision (i.e. she cheated). She's done with her program but obviously if the college found out they would be pissed and likely strip her of her diploma.

If I did this it would erase 2 years of her education, and would probably be banned from that college. Thats pretty significant. Why would I do this you might ask. We were together for almost 6 years. Things weren't going great towards the end but while we were still seeing each other she decided to get into a relationship with someone else and all the while lying about it to me. She was sleeping with him and me at the same time. She also suffers from depression, anxiety, and has borderline personality disorder and she has put me through the dumbest shit throughout the entire time we were together. It makes me so angry just thinking of the things that happened.

So, should I contact the college and let them know what she did?

 

You need to get over her, and taking out petty revenge won't help with that. Just wash your hands of her and walk away.

 

Sometimes life is rough. And unfair. Sometimes when we look back on our relationships--we can see that we were just as much to blame for STAYING. But a rat is a rat is a rat. Be the bigger person and move on. She has to live with herself and you,yourself.

 

That pussy musta been really good.. Thats all I gotta say..

 

Nah i would move on

 

And you didn't notice?

 

Why would you do that?

Thats really childish. You'll be over her in 6 months but you're fucking with her long-term future there. Just fuggetaboutit.

 

Yeah you'd just be a dick. Especially if she has a problem with depression

 

if you rat....she wins

 

Thank you everyone for your input.

LMAO! It was that, plus some insecurity and ignorance on my part.

I did. Took a couple weeks though.


Bah you people and your logical reasoning lol. I likely won't rat her out, as much as she deserves it. I know that if the situation was reversed she would be doing that to me. But I suppose I should be the bigger person and let it go. She'll get hers someday lol.

 

And you want to make her life more difficult? What a dick...

 

that's what i said




i think he should do it:devil:

 

The OP here basically sucks IMO. You are the one that let her use the address. She started to see someone else for some reason.

University is expensive. If someone did that to me I don't know what I would do. Grow up.

 

Thats a pretty good start

 

i'm sure the university knows damn well everybody cheats on online coursework. it got her money didn't it, what more does it care?

 

no. revenge won't solve this. nothing will ever solve this situation.

she met someone else and didn't tell you. she continued to lead you on and, yes, it's pretty shitty from where you're standing, but destroying her life for this is just as wrong and petty and small. this is life, shit happens. we are not nazis holding people's lives in our hands for every wrong thing they ever did. she did what she did, and you did what you did. and you can't rat her out without also ratting out your own hypocrisy.

my advice is, dump her, and get on with your life.

 

revenge kicks ass it all comes down to if its worth it tho up to u and ur feelings brah

 

The only thing in life that the world can't strip from you in a heartbeat is your honor. Your own personal choice on how to carry yourself.

The world can take loved ones, jobs, material things, your life, your happiness, your health - it can take pretty much anything it wants at any time. Except for your honor. Your word.

You participated in the lie to begin with - not saying that's dishonorable as most colleges are a huge waste of money nowadays BUT going back on it and ratting her out would most definitely be dishonorable.

When the smoke clears later in life you will have the advantage of knowing your carried yourself well when you had EVERY REASON to not do it - and trust me brother - that feeling is something your ex will not have.