Shed some light...

Hi everyone,

I think this topic has come about throughout many relationships, but i wana ask again here to see what your opinions are.

How many girls like to have sex with the light off....and.....

WHY?!?!!

Since men are visual creatures we like to "see" what we're doing.

Ladies feel free to tell me (us boys) why you like it with the light off.

 

It doesn't bother me one way or the other....

 

To me turning the lights off would be an insult. I like seeing the person I'm having sex with not imagining what they look like.

 

:iagree:

 

Well my computer is here in my bedroom. I like to turn the lights out and have my computer give some soft light. So that I can still see, but not so bright. I think the light from my computer is just the right amount of light and makes the atmosphere more romantic...

 

my gf used to use pillow if she does not want lights... i close the light if the pussy looks bad to me

 

Get some candles or a light dimmer.

 

Don't you mean some lube and a tissue? :tongue:

 

Lol maybe I'm not sure I'd go for the computer dimmer as a romantic touch. Plus you never know men, they could be taping you.

 

webcam :biggrin:

 

Deprivation of one sense often intensifies the effects of others...

 

And if that doesn't entice your nocturnal side

letting someone sex your sex face, that certainly will

 

I love lights-on sex. my boy is sexy and I like to think that I am as well..I like to check both of us out

I think for most girls it's an insecurity thing.

pink-tinted lightbulbs, candles, dimmed lights could all be a good starting place, it's hard not to feel hot in that kind of lighting

 

I like enough light to be able to see, ...and yes, I'd be suss on the webcams too

 

Yes, it's mostly about self-consciousness