She wants to try it with a girl but scared

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by samy, Dec 9, 2008.

  1. samy

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    I have always wanted my wife to try it with a girl. It turns me on even if I not part of it. She has always said no but last week she confessed that she loves to make love with a gilr. She said that she loves it so much but she is scared to try it. She said that she is afraid that she may become a lesbian and she may not like sex with me. This fear is stopping her. She said the desire inside her is so strong but she loves me and does not want to lose me.
    I want her to try it and I think she can be bi because I think I am bi as well.
    Do you have any comments or ideas to help me to assure her that she should not worry and should try her fantasies? I don't think her fears are real or are they?
     
  2. sophieclair

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    I don't think she should really worry about it. If she really loves you and wants to be with you then this shouldn't be a problem. I don't think you should push her into it, but if she wants to try it then tell her that it would make you happy to know that she got to live out one of her fantasies.

    I've tried it, its fun but personally I like guys better. I haven't done anything with a guy, but they for me are more tender and there is definitely more there for me then to be with another women.
     
  3. OldTroll

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    Identical posts (with the same typo errors) in different places make this look like an attempt at trolling.
     
  4. samy

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    Thank you OldTroll. Now Can I get your comments?
     
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    The first commandment of the internet is: Do Not Feed The Trolls
     
  6. Eric von Estangen

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    Why don't you find a woman who will join the two of you in a threesome? Your wife might feel more comfortable with you there. Then she can have sex with the woman. You might start with her, then have the woman join in the threesome. Hopefully you aren't pulling our legs.
     
  7. Eric von Estangen

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    You know Samy my suggestion is a good idea. Ask your wife. See what she thinks.
     
  8. Number6

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    I hate to say it, but she is very likely just telling you what you want to hear. My guess is she has no interest in girls, but she wants to make you happy, so she says she does. However, she does not want to actually follow through with anything, so she tells you she is scared, hoping you will respect her boundaries. My advice to you is to let it go and leave her alone about it, otherwise you come off as self centered and insensitive jerk.
     

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