Sex with one person

Hey,I was just wondering if there is anyone out there that has only had sex with one person in their whole life. My g/f and I are hung up on this issue. She seems to be fine with never fucking another guy,but I'd like to experiment a little while I am still young and able. We both have only had sex with each other, but she has done oral with other ppl. And I have never even madeout with someone else.Any thoughts or suggestions?

 

I dont see whats wrong with that. Me and my boy have never been with anyone else, but then neither of us really want to be with other people, everything thats most important to us, bedroom-wise, gets fullfilled. If you REALLY want to see what its like with other people, suggest a threesome? ONly if you both think you can handle any jealousy that might arise. BUt really i wouldnt worry too much Sex is something you guys can both work on, just coz you might not know all the tricks of the trade (so to speak) NOW doesn't mean you can't learn together and grow.

 

I've had a similar experience, having been a late bloomer and all; my first girlfriend was older than me, but had some experience. I was 19, and thought I was going to marry and never have another woman! Boy have I changed...


I say, do nothing based on some preconceived idea. I imagine you're quite young so... If it feels right to have sex with her only, do it until it doesn't. And then be honest with her and see the world. Hopefully you can do that and still maintain a relationship with her, which is trickier.

I am of the opinion that having multiple partners is GENERALLY very important. It provides for a richer life experience. As a matter of fact, I think people in our society don't experiment enough. I am sure I'm of a minority opinion however.

But that's just me. Individuals are too big to fit any one given mold.

 

*raises hand* I've only had sex with one person and I'm married to him. We've been together for 10 years, married for 7 of those years.

He, on the other hand, had other sexual experiences before me.

Do I personally have any regrets for not experimenting more? No. I'm happy with my decision.

 

Emma Goldman in her biography suggests a medical doctor for such cases.

 

Both me and my wife had several partners, and multiple partners, before we met. I dont think either of us could imagine only having slept with one person in pur lives! And although we are both faithfull to each other, neither of us would want to exclude involving others in our sex life. Sorry but for me only ever having had one sexual partner would be kinda boring!

 

Ive only slept with 2 men...and I married them.....ladies, on the other hand......wheres my list .........

 

So because I have no desire to be with anyone else sexually, that makes there something wrong with me? Maybe that's not the norm, but hey, it works for me. My husband gives me all I need. I have no complaints.

It might not be for everyone, but you know, it's a personal decision. Do I agree with your lifestyle? Hey, I'm not going to judge. Not my job.

 

Hippychickmommy...I think your way of life is VERRY cool !!!!

 

Awww, thankyou very kindly erzebet. *blushes*

 

No ones judging anyone here. We are all different with our own lifestyles and likes. If we were all the same we wouldnt have much of a forum would we!

 

Then Emma Goldman doesnt have much to talk about in her biography.

 

Sorry for the bit of cynicism there, hippychickmommy (long name)! So long as you're genuinely happy (as opposed to ideologically happy), it ain't my job to pass judgement either. Actually, it wouldn't be for me to pass judgement even had you been depressed and suicidal.

I just have difficulty fathoming a life well-lived within the comforms you live yours. But hey, that's why we're different people! You have a pleasant "posting personality" and I respect your input (even though you're wrong!!! lol).

 

Is that so? Would you care to read it first? Do you know who she is?

 

Ah Ha Ha Ha, I just knew you and your wife were swingers.

 

i've only had sex with one woman in my life and i plan to marry her.

 

Awe, I think I'm gonna cry. There's been a few threads so far that have made me want to cry, however one in particular has already made me wet my panties .

 

Ok, when are you cummin to join us??

 

i've been with more than one person in my life but i met someone in february and haven't been with anyone other than him since. i loveeeee himmmmmm *giddy*

 

Thats awesome