I have a problem.. well i guess more like 2. My boyfriend likes to have sex for a long time, I'm usually done in about 10-15 minutes but he'll cum in like 20-30 and then immediately want to keep going. I uh, get off really easily. If we fuck for say 15 minutes, I'll probably orgasm at least twice. If it takes him 30 minutes to cum, I've probably already gotten off three or four or five times. By the time he's done, I'm completely exhausted and physically can't continue. I want to please him, but I feel bad because I can't ever keep going after very long. Also, I'm really loud, and I live with roommates. I'm really insecure about it after one of my roommates (who's room is all the way on the other side of the house) actually left in the middle of the night because I was so loud. So now on top of having like three orgasms each time we fuck, I'm also trying my hardest to be quiet which exhausts me even more. Its super frustrating and I just dont know what to do, its actually making me not want to have sex as much :/
You may want to try to extend the foreplay, focusing on stimulating him more than yourself to give him a "head start" so to speak. If using condoms, maybe change to a brand or type that doesn't provide as much sensitivity for you. Finally, a trick I used as a teenager. I would masturbate prior to a sexual encounter to decrease my own sensitivity to last longer. Not sure if any of these will work for you. Good luck.
