Sex Or Love!!!!!!!!!sex Or Love!!!!!!!!!!

WHICH DO YOU PREFFER.? having sex with someone you dont have feelings for,or been in love but not been able to have sex...









Out here in the perimeter there are no stars,out here we is stoned,immaculate.

 

Do manual and oral count?

 

Well Im in love with my husband and our relationship is fairly good but we don't have sex. Ever. Its been 19 months (almost 20) and Im not sure why.... I do know that he has a REALLY low sex drive.


So right now, just sex is lookin' pretty good to me. :H

 

I want both. Love AND great sex.

 

I hope this comes out right. I admire you're stength. Unless you have a low sex drive, too, I'd imagine it must be really frustrating. To love someone so much that you stay, loyally, by his side even though you are not experiencing the physical side of passionate love. At the same time, I don't envy you. I'd be so frustrated I'd probably start hallucinating lovers while I was masturbating.

 

I won't choose between them. I don't care for one without the other much.

 

Being in love and having meaningful sex


aha i kno that isnt an option but I wont have one without the other....

 

Definatly love

 

I choose that one as well.
Sex without feelings is something I can live without but I don't ever wanna live without love.

 

Well, how about both together? Being that I'm in love with my husband and he's the only one I've ever had sex with, it's all I know.

 

That is absolutely amazing to me. You're married and there's been no sex for almost 20 months?! Wow. Just...WOW.

 

Although sex(I'm a virgin, but that's not the point here) is wonderful, love beats even the best sex.

I can live without a sex partner, but I don't think I'd like the idea of not having someone who loves me for who and what I am. As it is, there is not enough love in the world today.

Sex, while very important, is only a "plus", at least to me.

 

Yup. But you also voted me not attractive in the HippieVixen/YellowBelly thread so maybe your not as shocked as you sound ? LoL ~

 

Both please.

I can't imagine being romantically in love with someone and not being able to express that love through sex. I could imagine a one night stand if I was desperate enough, but I don't know that I'd wanna go much further than making out and maybe some over-clothign groping with someone I didn't feel the inklings of love for at least, it would make me feel.... not really comfortable with the situation.

 

Well hey now, in my defense, I wasn't too familiar with you until just recently!

You are very beautiful of course, so, yeah, I am genuinely shocked that you haven't had sex in that long!

 

hahaha~ Its all good


Ya, its been a heckuva long time..... I don't know if I still remember how!