Seriously Now....

would you date a midget, or a person who had no limbs?

truthfully.

some guy i know asked me this the other day...and i felt like a real shallow bitch...but honestly..i dont think i'd date a midget. but, honestly now. i would go out with someone with no limbs.

strange ey?

 

I'm going to be honest and say neither.

Some people are going to say I'm shallow, but at least I'm honest and shallow, I guess.

 

I used to have a huge crush on a guy in a wheelchair... but he wasn't a midget and still had everything attached.... I wouldn't date a "little person," I don't think, just because the sex would be too weird. I don't think I'd mind some missing limbs, but it would depend on how he lost them, I think...

 

I wouldn't date someone I wasn't attracted to....so probably not....maybe a missing arm would be ok...not sure.

 

i wouldnt call ya shallow...
i think its all in the genes man...the science- we're just out searchin for the perfect mate- ya kno?
we aint controllin these feelins....

sure i'd be friends with anyone, no bother...

 

no limbs? as in none at all? i'm not sure about that one, since i don't know what we would be able to do together. i would date someone missing a limb, though.


a "midget"...yeah, what the hell, why not? my husband and i were friends with a dwarf. he used to always go clubbing with us. he had pretty good luck with the chicks, and although he was short, he was not a bad looking guy.

i sound fake saying it, but truthfully, it's all about the personality. you may decide to approach someone based on what they look like, but whether anything ever develops from that has to do with the way the person acts.

 

nope. i wouldn't. i have to find someone sexually attractive to want to date them, and i don't find midgets or handicapped people sexually attractive. i dont' really feel bad about it since there's millions of people out there who don't find me at all their style and don't feel bad about that, either. it's just how it is.


now, if there was a way to really become familiar with someone outside of dating, an attraction might develop, but that would be too heavy a burden for me to take, and no, i don't think it's shallow.

 

ok ok...
i get wat yiz are sayin

but.

what if yer partner had all his limbs blown off??

or if his face melted??

did yaz see that documentury about that guy who got this kinda fungus on his face- and he had to get THE WHOLE THING CUT OUT!!
and he know has a fake face.
he still has a tongue and a jaw.
and evry day, his darling wife- cleans the inside of his skull.

now. thats. love.

 

I knew a really hot chick in high school who was missing her arm past her elbow... I think it was a birth defect. I'm not sure. She was pretty and all - she almost reminded me of Natalie Portman - but she was a bitch. Fuck her....

 

damn that is love.....


reminds me of this documentary called "Chernobyl Heart" that i saw last night, made by this Irishwoman who has my complete respect...she takes care of deformed and poisoned children around the Chernobyl region and Belarus....some absolutely incredible deformities going on there, it was heart breaking, but there she was, holding these kids, taking care of them....

 

yea, i saw that too...

man, when your ever feelin low. just think o wat other folk are dealin with...we're so lucky. so so lucky.

i'd love to do something like that woman.

those children are just children, no different than anyone, except they deal and cope with so much more pain...most of them are living in complete shit.

what kinda life is that?

man....

 

I think that guy lives around here, because there was a big story in the paper a few months ago about a story just like that. He got some kind of mold in his sinus cavities while he was cleaning out his flooded basement or something... he said that his face is so real looking that he challenges people in bars to staring contests...haha.... and he always wins...

 

yep, that sure sounds like em...

such an amazin guy.

can ya imagine what that must o been like?,

he wears sunglasses all the time...
he's face is scarey lookin...expressionless...

its mad, the things the medical world can do these days...

 

That would'nt be an issue to me.

 

In all honesty, it depends on their personality. Midget/average height, missing a limb/all limbs in tact, beautiful/average looking... it doesn't matter. For me it is based upon what kind of person they are.

My ex fiance use to tell me that if I was ever involved in a horrible accident that left me missing a limb or resulted in some kind of disfiguration, he would have no use for me. Just one of the many reasons why he is an ex.

 

well, that's totally different. i abosolutely ADORE my husband. he's my life. there's no way i could ever leave him, he's my best friend.

 

i would date a midget if i was attracted to them. i've seen some little people with very pretty faces, i could get over the size once i got to know her. and as for a person with no limbs, i guess so, but she'd have to have one helluva tongue.

 

i wouldnt date a midget , but limbs missing i could do... now if something happened to my husband i'd stay i love him.

 

I must disagree, it isn't all in genes at all.
It's all known social patrons or standards, you're what you've lived, what sociey has taught to you.
And it's really sad, but our sexual education and our attraction instincts are being badly infected by TV and all the shit we have to swallow day after day.
we like or not, we're all shallow people.
I'd like saying that i'm not, but i'll probably find a prejudice where i've never waited.

 

No limbs? Yes.

Midget? No.