Seperate bedrooms

probably a bad sign huh?

He's never here. When he is here, we fight. I don't think he'd physically leave me unless i made him go. But he's not really here anyways.

I'm so tired. Depressed maybe? On some level i know that i deserve something more than this, but on other levels, i just dont have the energy to start over again.

 

Aw really sad You still love eachother?

 

yeah, no, i dunno

the emotions i feel are irritation and resignation

i dont think he loves me. it's 3 am and he's still not home yet.

 

Can you not sit him down and explain how youre feeling? Say you feel the relationships dying and you want to know whether or not he truly wants to resurrect it? If not, then thats it. It jus seems to me lifes too short to waste on a loveless relationship. There are so many great people out there you could be enjoying living with, instead of feeling depressed and lonely. You should never stay unhappy.

Xx

 

i second that. have THE talk. you can't stay in a loveless relationship just because you are afraid to be alone/start over. do you want to wake up years from now hating the person you're with, or loving every minute of your life?

 

I would love seperate bedrooms. Honestly, it's been my dream ever since we moved in together. Someday, I will have my wish!

 

i think you need to talk to him and explain your feelings

maybe he is having some of the same thoughts you wont know until you speak.

if it ends thats the way its ment to be

resolve your issues then maybe you can move on!!

 

Really?...i dont like many things more than the feeling of waking up with someone you love sleeping next to you.

Xx

 

My ex started sleeping out in the lounge. Silly me, I should have been happy with that. Sure, every time she fed me beans I was happy we weren't in the same bed ..... but I missed her being next to me and I felt our relationship was over. She was doing it to help us because we are both bed hogs and I have the curse of sleep talking. So, it was a good thing which I took the wrong way and that was probably a major factor in our demise. So, the seperate bedrooms thing can be good ...... and fights are often just a progression. That's all I have the wisdom to say ....

 

Mrs. Robinson, you can come sleep in my bed if you like.

 

Then mine.
Sounds like you love each other but are NOT IN LOVE with one other.
Move on and be happy.