I can't believe I'm doing this, but I just started talking to a girl that I kind of like, and we are getting along good, so far. (Yea I know, so far-we'll see how long that is.) But anyway, I exclusively date only girls my age or older...weeellllll, she is <<And DON'T lecture me!>> 17. Chill out, she is turning 18 in two weeks, and nothing is going to happen romantically before then, I'll be sure of it. But I always say this is a bad idea when others do it, and here I am going after a young girl myself. I do like her and she seems sweet and she is very sexy (she'll be sexier in two weeks. haha) But I am just putting this out there. Like I said, I don't normally do this, but if I enter into it reminding myself to take it a step at a time, maybe it will be alright. Thats how I approach ALL relationships these days anyway.
Sounds good to me...but take it slower with this one. You fall too hard and always get hurt and that makes me sad.
Best advice ever, no worries man. I'll play it coooooollll. I got her for awhile anyway, she just told me awhile ago that I'm (and I quote) "too damn fine for words, and I'm gonna keep you all to myself!"
Noice. You don't get claustrophobic in relationships, do ya? Sometimes I forget that not everyone has the same problem. :biggrin:
Wow. I am not going to give advice. If there is one thing I know...when it comes to matters of love and relationships...I am wrong. For god sake though realize that this person is an innocent being. I assume you have a conscience. Follow it. Personally I would never consider someone under 21 anymore. That used to be different. I would consider anyone over 18 years old. Not any more. But the maturity of the person is the most important thing.
I know I ought to leave the young thing alone But ain't no sunshine when she's gone Only darkness everyday
I am saying if you motivation is love...trust it and take it slow. If it is pure lust realize that an instant of enjoyment can effect other people for the rest of their lives. Yes I know the cool thing to say is wait til 18 and bang the bitch. I am just not cool. I think you are a good person that is why I said follow your conscience. If you do you will not have regrets later.
I almost exclusively date older women. It takes a lot of maturity to keep up with a guy like me. And not because I'm mature... But as far as attraction, oh, I like some 17 year olds. I don't see anything wrong with that at all. 18's a bullshit arbitrary age.