My girl says that sex hurts her, when we first started having sex it was really good, but a few months in she said it hurts her. We've tried lots of different types of lube and positions, but she still says it hurts. As time went on, she started to loose interest in trying because it just hurts, she went to see her gp, and was told that it was a psycological problem. Which upset her. since then we've tried a couple of times but its still painfull for her, now we don't even attempt sex. I've suggested seeing her gp agian because I don't think its psycological, but she doesn't want to go. Through this time, my girlfriend has also started to loose interest in foreplay and kissing intensly, at the moment she'll touch me about once a fourtnight, and doesn't give oral at all. even though I occassionnaly touch her and give her oral. I fully understand how upsetting this must be for her, she's said in the past that she is gutted that she can't "give me what I want", i've been as supportive as I can through this time, I tell her that I love her, and nothing will seperate us. I find myself looking at other girls now, and I feel really crap, because I really love her. Any thoughts or advice?
Agreed. It could be psychological or it could be a physical problem, it may even be both, but I wouldn't completly trust the GP on this one.
There are many medical conditions that can cause this. Of coarse if she is not responding sexually at all then I would guess you have another problem. Only she would know what that is.
