I am a Venusian Artist. I have mastered social dynamics in the art of seduction. I will periodically be posting little hints and helpful notes for men. Take it or leave it, I do this out of love. Most guys think they need to be nice to get a woman. That may work on some women(nice guys do get laid) but, being the nice guy to woman that has been hit on by a million guys will just blur you into the millions that hit on her. Here's what most "nice guys" do: Treat them very politely: always open doors for them, always buy the drinks and meals, buy flowers, give up your seat for them, etc. Always be on time for dates – in fact be early and wait for them. Give them your undivided time and patience. Don’t let them know you are interested in a sexual way – it will happen it just takes time. Only date one woman at a time, and if that doesn’t work out, then, and only then, start looking for another woman. etc. None of this being sickly ‘nice’ works! Women like adventure, in the same way men do: they will shag in parks, cemeteries, on trains, in cars, etc. They love being teased, and going emotional roll-a-coaters… So, am I Mr Nice-Guy now? Yes, sort of! I’m pleasant and respectful of women, but now I’m confident, assertive, and playful with women – which is what they want! Women don’t want overly nice, needy, indecisive, boring men! They want men who are confident, a little cheeky, who can be forward when they need to, who can say no and mean no, who lead the way especially in the bed-room. This is why the Venusian Arts is so effective. It dispels many myths about women and provides simple techniques and tactics that can be used to improve a guy’s chances of successfully meeting and attracting women. It’s not just about one-night stands or ‘cheating’! It’s about developing ‘women skills’, which most men don’t have! I wont be giving away any trade secrets but, I will be lending a helping hand for those who need it.
i can fall in love with both a nice man (the way you describe) and baddie in fact my last love was exactly the way you described nice men but...i would never refer him to sickly nice or sweet guys on the contrary he remained a secret for me, like his true self hid behind all this attention and politeness
I'm not saying that nice guys don't get laid or don't have success because they do. But, in a public gathering, women of beauty have been hit on countless times by the "nice guy" so they have an automatic defense mechanism called the "bitch shield" they put up. Are they really bitches? My experiences say no but, how do you get their true self to shine through? There are also women who collect drinks. "Can I buy you a drink?" "Sure. Thanks now buzz off!" Being the nice guy blends you into the crowd, bluring you in the eyes of the women you want.
there's such a thing as individuality... having a bright one will never blend you into the crowd... as for bitches...i dunno i've never understood them or the ones, who "collect drinks" i never accept offers to buy me anything coz later i feel as if i owe smth to that person
if more women where like you, I'd be out of a job! Individuality is a strong trait all men should have, I agree completely.
actually, no. I do private lessons with friends of friends for a price(we usually barter for goods or services), I give away free advice when I can. I really do, do this out of love and to help my fellow man. the seduction community has become to caught up with making money and it sickens me.
So, basically, you're saying women don't like insecure, needy guys, just like men don't like insecure, needy women. I'm sure there are people who can benefit from your advice, but honestly, I've always found analyzing stuff like this to be a little sickening. I have had girlfriend after girlfriend since I was 12 years old, and being myself is all that it's ever taken. Any long term relationship prospect worth anyone's time wants the same thing any sane person would want... kindness, respect, fun, laughter, witticism, intellectual stimulation, good sex... I think it's a lot easier than love analysts make it out to be. Now, seducing women for one night stands might be another matter, but I have never been into that.
