Hey i was lookin for some advice me and my boyfriend have been going out for a few months and we've recently been having sex for the first time.everytime we have sex we dont talk and its really quiet...its great sex but i didnt know if thts not normal to not talk during sex?? or really about sex?? ne1 know how i could bring this up to him??
If the quiet is making you feel weird, then by all means talk to him. But I don't think not talking during sex is bad...sometimes it helps put a better emphasis on what you're feeling physically and emotionally. Sometimes talking is fun too .. I think it's cool just do what you feel, and each time doesn't have to be the same. When we have sex (my bf and I) sometimes it's dirty talk, sometimes it's sweet romantic talk, sometimes it's silly talk and sometimes it's totally silent - whatever feels right in the moment.
