Question for the Men

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if I was into her.

 

Hi, yes WE would.

 

no. when i was in highschool i probably would have tho.

 

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OK so what's up with the frown then? You got answers. Well excetpt for LastStand and he's not a man by any definition.

To answer your question, it would depend on the woman, how into her I am, her level of hygeine, etc.

 

okay, thanks. I know I am being annoying! I am even annoying myself! lol

 

if he wants to and you dont want him to then dont do it, he can wait or screw off. Its my favorite thing to do, its really the only thing Im real good at so I love to show off, lol!

 

Exactly Yank, exactly.

 

Sooooo....don't.

I do it 'cos i like to do it, not 'cos i demand something back.

Keep your head up high...

 

Used to, I'd have said yes. Now, I may, but I'd be a little more cautious.

Damn diseases! They ruin all the fun!

 

thanks for the great advice!

 

I didn't think performing oral sex on a woman was risky?

 

Burned!

 

It can be very risky. herpes for one. Or, herpes for two in this case.



But seriously, my husband works in a hospital and has heard some horror stories about these kinds of things.

gonorrhea of the throat comes to mind...

 

wow, I had no idea!

 

No.. But then I wouldn't have sex with somebody I didn't know either..

I love the intimacy of sex.. The constant exploring.. So in time, you know it would happen, but the thrill would be there.

 

If she wanted me to and I liked her I would.

 

Good question! I've always said that I wouldn't go down on a girl if it was the first time.

Especially not a one night stand.

But let's say no sex til after the third or fourth date & we've had time to get to know each other a little,feel each other out then the night comes when it's time to hop in bed,then yes I damn sure would go down. But then sometimes I think,I'm not going to give everything I got on the first time. I have to keep some of my tricks in the bag! But if I really want to then I will as I love to eat pussy.

Now another thing.....My ex (we split this weekend) has said that she doesn't go down on a guy til after the first few times of having sex because it's a more intimate act & can't really get into it or feel good about doing it right away.

Now,I was with a woman last night that I literally met yesterday,the same day. I had chatted with her online maybe twice & talked on the phone just once before but nothing like an extended conversation where it already felt like we knew each other. We hung out all day yesterday checking out live music & drinking pretty much all day as well. We end up back at her place. We start getting hot & heavy but she tells me that the "deed" isn't going to happen because we just met. That's fine with me but we both have our shirts off,there's lots of biting,licking,kissing. Soon after she undoes my pants & goes to town with the oral. Not only that but....she swallows! She kept her pants on the whole time & didn't allow me to even touch her through her pants. But still she swallowed. Soon after I was about to leave she says she's not going to let me & yes,we end up fucking hard. She told me she didn't have protection but then when it came down to it,she runs to the bathroom & grabs a rubber. Hmmmm.....

Well,she tells me that she was just so turned on she couldn't help herself. That was a perfect example of why I don't go down on girls I just met....lol.

So even if sex didn't happen,she still initiated the oral & swallowed on her own accord & she obviously enjoyed every bit of it. This woman is ten years my senior,by the way.

Now I understand that no two girls are alike in that some may not have a problem with going down right away whereas others will do that before having intercourse. I'm just confused as to how some may have sex but not perform oral til later on but others will perform oral but not sex til after they get to know they guy.....