Question for the guys

If your girls wants to have anal sex and then chickens out at the last minute, but wants to have regular sex are you dissapointed that you're having regular, rather than anal?

 

sorry, by regular I meant vaginal. I know to a lot of people vaginal sex isn't regular sex. So I apologized if I offended anyone.

 

No, I love sex

 

lol are you in a similar situation?

 

haha my boyfriend has gotten over anal... thank god... fucking lube farts.

 

I'm a virgin. if I were in that situation I'd be perfectly happy to cuddle and tell her it was all okay and have some heavy petting.

 

no...hah. I was just thinking about how I kind of felt like trying the anal sex tonight, but I don't wanna be a tease if I can't go through with it (I am an anal sex virgin).

 

It is some what of a novelty.

 

HAHAHAHAHAHA

 

wait what? that doesn't sound good.
I am just going to be blunt. My husband has a large penis and I have a small vagina and vaginal sex hurts so I don't think we could ever have anal sex...but sometimes I just feel like anal sex, even though I've never had it...hard to explain

 

i almost used that exact wording.

i think it all goes downhill after the time you get poo on your dick.

 

if you've never had it, it makes total sense that you would want it. does vaginal sex always hurt you? do you not have a lot of sex because of it? if so, then maybe trying anal would be good for your relationship.... just have a couple glasses of wine and MAN UP!

 

CrummyRummy in da bummy

 

both of us have issues with sex and we don't have a lot of it. It's painful during it, but I don't care because it feels so good at the same time. But, afterwards it hurts in a major way, when I pee etc.
When we first got together we had sex a few times a day and I was in constant pain down there and we wouldn't be able to have sex for a few more days.
I think that's attributed to his issues too. he's afraid of hurting me.

 

he said he wasn't posting or reading on here anymore so that's why I am writting this. If he was still posting I would never discuss this on here, but I don't think he is going to log on here again.

 

Ever tried lube? I know that would probably help me with my similar issues with Daniel, but I'm allergic to so much damn stuff, I'm scared to use it.

 

yeah, we always use astroglide...no avail ):

 

wow...that sucks..but thanks for letting me know...I was wondering...and I'll miss his humour..

 

Yeah ): I miss him on here too. I keep on sending him messages, forgetting that he doesn't come on here anymore.
I wonder if something I wrote bothered him or if he's just been uninterested?

 

You send him messages?..youre confusing me...arent you living with him?...I thought he was your husband