question for fellow scorpios

SO basically im horny all the time, like every hot girl i see brings me to dirty thoughts (keep in mind i am a ferel 21 yr old male) and i am constantly going on dates but as soon as i get up close with a girl i lose interest real quick unless she is real special. Best way to describe it is every attractive women makes me horny but i am very very selective about choosing my mates as 1) i dont like meaningless sex and 2) i find it hard to find women to relate to. This is a huge problem for me for obvious reasons. Ive read this is a common trait of most scorpios and was wondering if any one else shared my problem.

 

Oh yeah. This happens for me a lot. For me to actually be interested in anyone, they have to feel right. Cant explain it at all, other than, being a Scorpio.

 

glad someone feels my pain, and its sooooo hard to find anyone who just feels right. Been three years for me since ive had a relationship sigh lol.

 

yep...I'm a female, so I dont have that virile 21 year old male horniness However, I find that I get off on guys being attracted to me..I use it almost as a power play but when it comes down to it its really rare that I'm interested in anything more than a flirtation. It takes a really special guy for me to truly be interested in him sexually. This isnt a bad thing though..gets lonely sometimes but at least you arent out there wasting your time with meaningless relationships.

 

I'm a scorpio with the same issue. What makes it even worse for me is that the very few people I have had that special feeling for (3 that i can think of) just did not feel the same way about me. While countless others who really liked me and wanted to get involved in a deeper relationship... I just wasn't interested in them in that way. I have had plenty of sex and short term relationships in my life, But I have yet to experience that magical bond where I am as crazy about someone as they are about me. I want to be with someone who I love, lust, adore (bordering on obsession haha) and that the mere thought of them makes my heart pound.

 

hey dyslexic u need a boyfreind or umm a girlfreind something badly he hehe

OH AND EVERYBODY SEZ WE R SEX ADDICTS WHAT DA U THINK?? HE HEH

 

You might be interested in reading about Scorpio men, it really explains a lot. I date a Scorpio and we had the same issues that you did, until he found me. I'm an Aquariuan and we don't have the easiest relationship, but we both compromise very well (which is KEY for Aquarius and Scorpio compatibility) I think when you find the girl that strikes your fancy, you'll totally come around and change.

 

im a female scorpio and have somewhat similar issues. if i am single, i am ruled by sexuality. if i am in a relationship, i am ruled by love and devotion. kinda sucks sometimes. it would be nice to find that perfect match.

done aries, virgo, libra, taurus, aquarius...

all workable, but too much work if ya know what i mean.

 

I've done aries, virgo, taurus, and aquarius..

aries and i werent compatible sexually, virgo was a little too.....methodical, is a good word I suppose....taurus and i worked really well, the only reason we broke up was circumstances outside of our control..and aquarius was horrible, preferred to skim the surface level while I wanted everything on a deeper level.

 

For me sex is a big deal and im a girl -- lol i swear i think about it just as much as any guy would lol i cant help it everything can be and sometimes is always sexual to me -- i could take almost anything and make it sexual -- lol its been something i've always dealt with and its not always a good thing cuz always wanting to have that closeness with someone through sex is hard -- especially when its almost like a drug having that feeling that blissful feeling after having an emtional sexual experience with someone - which is never quiet satisfied cause your always thinking about it ...just my thoughts

Live.Love.Laugh

 

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hopefully non-scorpios won't infiltrate this thread and discover our weakness to sex and love.

 

i think about sex a lot too....i only ever found one guy who got me sexually, emotionally and spiritually and he is a very very very sexy Aries!!! I too like men and the thought of being with them, but when it comes to it, with most, i would rather not bother, so its a bit of a dilemna. The Aries guy has four planets in Scorpio and i am told we have perfect astrological synastry, but he is the only one that did it for me!!!

Jeeeeeez who would be a Scorpio?......

x

 

interesting

 

I'm a semi-Scorpio, does that count? I'm technically, Libra, but I'm on the cusp and the doctors induced me two weeks early. I have traits of both, but I'm more like the average Scorpio.

Yeah. Sex. I'm attracted to varying people depending on my mood. I'm into both sexes, and women more often than men. basically, I'm interested in 6-10 people a day. But I don't want to have them around for long, and I've only really wanted sex with a few. Only had two partners, both Tauruses through and through. No one else got to stick around long enough, and the first Taurus couldn't really handle me. My husband's on the cusp of Gemini, makes for an interesting relationship. We're both very sexual, me more so than him.

Here's a hint for the care and keeping of Taurus men: fuck them and feed them, both often.

 

i love the taurus/scorpio love match. The only guy i've ever dated that I felt really understood me was a taurus

 

IDK how common that is. I am pretty much 30 degrees scorpio, and sex has been my thing for my entire life - and tho I have my standards of beauty and turn-ons, I have bedded ppl just because they were available and not to those standards.

I have also had some impassioned love affairs, but never turned away from admiring others even while in relationships. So maybe I am an anomalous Scorpio by the posts in this thread but from what I have read in most blurbs I am the norm.

I have only had sex with 60 different ppl in my life, about equally divided between male and female. Factors for that - I was a young man in the '60s & '70s free-luv years countered with a quarter century of being in sex-exclusive relationships.

My wife of 20 years was a Taurus. We had great sex together - she fit me better than any other woman.

 

my last serious relationship was a taurus, but he had some serious growing to do. im now dating a taurus (april 21) which i believe is on the cusp of aries/taurus. he's completely different from the last taurus, maybe he's more evolved as a person. looking forward to see how his goes.

 

definitely feel that way. i loove sex and i loove love. it's very hard to find someone who doesn't bore me after awhile (in bed)
also, i tend to be initially turned off to guys who seem really into me....i think it makes them seem desperate i guess.. if i find them attractive, i just want to jump their bones which makes me think that the mystery will be gone and that kind of fizzes things out..or it kind of scares me off..or scares them off. shit idk what i'm talking about i'm stoned off my ass. :dizzy2: :willy_nilly:

 

I think its important for the Scorpio to find other means of transcending the sexual energy until they meet lovers that can match their intensity. Whilst i am not with my
aries lover man i tend to use music and dancing as a channel....would rather do that
than give myself away to any old dick ........yuk! I have been lucky that for the most part ive met guys who aint been loose, which kinda feeds my intense sexual appetite, yet the need for a certain amount of purity?

To me the sexual energy is very precious and i would rather not bother than try n find that intensity that very few can match......i have only ever met one guy who can do it for me....and i am thinking it may not be that easy in the future?