prostitutes

Who here has paid for sex?
Was it good, bad, ugly?
Would you do it again?

 

Not into it really.

I kind of like knowing the act means something beyond a transaction. When it means something the act itself is usually better for me and her.

 

i've paid for it twice. 2nd one was feeling good. nope, wouldn't pay again. dont want to catch anything.

 

i haven't but i would.

 

I haven't and wouldn't. I've seen tons of prostitutes in NY and Atlantic city though. But I'm young and decent looking, so I don't have to pay for sex.

 

I've paid for sex a few time, wasn't bad not the sort of sex for relationship.. hope never to pay again tho:hide:

 

I havent directly but I would if the oppertunity arose and I was feeling horny

 

I haven't and I never will pay for sex. I don't really have any moral objection to the notion of prostitution, but I do have qualms with the human trafficking/pimping/abuse/coercion/exploitation aspect of it. My feeling is, if the world wasn't run by psychopaths, there wouldn't be a market for prostitution in the first place.

 

Whats wrong with bangin a hot chick that was smuggled in against her will?
There is always someone who has to bring the negatives about prostitution into these conversations

 

Nope never have and I guess I never will

 

I wouldn't pay because well I consider it a gift to be able to fuck me but if I needed money I would soooo charge for sex. I mean why not I like sex u wanna control the situation I could use some money u have money win win. Most guys who hire prostitutes with the exception of like truck stop hookers, are clean middle classed to upper classed married men who are in shitty marriages and need someone to tend to their needs for a change or they are people who feel they have no control in their lives and enjoy a situation that they control. I think whores and johns get a bad wrap I think most of it comes from the depiction of a whore as this innocent person being taken advantage of and the John being this sleazy predator but that's not the case certainly not when we get to the whores who make money. Maybe street hookers have a hard go of it but an escort pshhhh easy untaxed money. A brothel whore makes good money too and if she doesn't like the house she can move to another one.

 

I actually find it difficult to be attracted to any woman but prostitutes. E.g., a friend of mine is trying to set me up with this girl tomorrow on a double-date, and I simply do not want to go.

I don`t like sucking up to women, and I don`t like being controlled...I like straight-forwardness and even-handedness concerning sex. Women outside of prostitution for whatever reason don`t seem to be interested in that.

Therefore prostitution is pretty much the only path available to me that I can see to remain uncontrolled, and un-humiliated.

I find dating way more humiliating than paying, though neither`s a bed of roses. Prostitution to me is simply the least worst solution to a gender dynamic that I do not wish to take part in.

Even though I toy with the idea of reducing my sex life to masturbation, the health and psychological benefits of sex to me are undeniable. I am more productive, and happier when I have sex and I`m able to cuddle, etc...

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Tonight, I reconnected with a prostitute I have been seeing long-term. I had taken a break from seeing her because I have feelings for her, and she`s got someone outside of her profession.

But, it was great to open up to her and of course, sex with her is always scintillating. I`m quite happy about the encounter and I plan to see her again.

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I have been attracted to prostitutes as long as I can remember, and I started being a john at a very early age in spite of having also been relatively successful picking up girls in nightlife.

 

Everybody pays. Dinner dates, movies, your gas, your time. Some women just prefer the cash up front. Others are longer term investments, and they usually cost a whole lot more. Wedding rings, a house, cars... the list goes on. Everything costs, and everybody pays.

 

Yes. Nothing worse than expectations and promises that aren't met! I met a woman who after 3 dates insisted she wanted to fuck. So she came to mine, I cooked, we had a few drinks, started kissing...and she said (at 11.30 pm) "Let's go to the movies!" I said no, I've had too much to drink to drive, and she got angry and left.

Next day she texted "We will fuck tonite" (I kept the text) and the same thing happened. We went to dinner, had some wine, went back to my place, and she changed her mind.


Woulda been easier, cheaper and more satisfying to get an escort. As Julia Roberts said, "I appreciate this whole seduction scene, but I'm a sure thing".

 

I do from time to time. Ive never dealt with pimps, or escort services.... only independent girls. Usually college girls paying/partying their way through school. Currently, I know a group of 5 girls that rent a house together just for business. I've had some great fuckin times in that house

There's nothing quite like a night of hookers and blow to relieve some stress haha

 

there is something appealing about the idea of sex being a completely business-like transaction, no emotional investment with each other at all etc, just two complete strangers.

But i'd never go with a prostitute, the moral implications are too dodgy for comfort, as far as i'm concerned.

Plus i'm not at all interested in the financial aspect, feelings of privelige and ownership, which i imagine are fairly central to a lot of people who regularly use prostitutes, doesn't really appeal to me.

 

Tell me about the hookers and blow. Do they provide the coke? Or do you bring it to the girls' place? Is the blow their pay? I've had some awesome times with women and blow (not hookers though). Everyone gets soooooo horny!

 

I've only been with a prostitute once. It was a rebound after a long term relationship in the late 90's. It was a ripoff - $200 for a blow job. The girl was young, blonde, and incredibly hot. She tried putting on a couple of condoms and they broke. She apologized for not having bigger ones. She finally got one one and blew me for a while. She also took down her top and let me play with her tits during the BJ. They were small but had very hard nipples. I wanted to touch her pussy but she was on her period and said she was very sensitive down there. She pulled the condom off and stroked me really fast. It actually splashed up and hit her face when I came and she giggled a lot about it. She helped me clean up and I was on my way. It was a little stressful because I only had so much time - at a certain point someone called to make sure she was ok and everything was fine.

 

It's never their pay. And contrary to popular belief, the majority of girls on the job won't have anything to do with any drugs. Or at least not with clients. The only girls I've done it with I've at least had somewhat of a friendship with outside of their work.

What I said was mostly out of humor.....it's fun to say "Hookers and blow." Theres plenty of girls outside of prostitution that are more than willing to have a good time with some good coke.

 

It is a business transaction, you may get what you paid for.
If you want to come without strings attached,without all the drama and b.s that goes with getting a woman to spread her legs or cheeks or give out a bj, it's the way to go.