I'm definitely straight....but I'm fascinated by the Idea of reaching orgasm through prostate manipulation. I have also heard that it is practiced, and considered healthy in many cultures. I would like to know more about it , but not really would only be comfortable speaking to a woman???
Sarahrei; Im new here. Thanks for the reply. Do U know any Information recourse, or techniques I can get?? Thanks,
Welcome; It's important to know where the prostate is first, it's about 2-3 inchs inside of you, easily reached by a finger, and it feels like (well on my man) a spongy bit of thicker tissue. If you use a finger (keep your nails SHORT, and use LUBE) and slide it inside your butt, curl it up like you were doing g-spot stimulation on your girlfriend (in short slightly curl your finger like your asking someone to come here). Thats the basic move, figure out if you enjoy it and then move onto toys that are designed for men.
sarahrei, I gather this is done along with masturbation? I read some stuff on prostate health web sites but they never said straight out that this was done in conjunction with ejaculation. In this case your talking about doing this purely for pleasure. Right?
i like it, it feels well ummm better just be carefully at first and use lube like Sar said just curl ur fingers if u like move on to a smal toy or plug i think vibration is the best oh and btw HI WELCOME TO THE PARTY.. we have cake and cookies arty:
I've climaxed from anal sex, by having an actual penis penetrating me & rubbing against my prostate, but I've I've never (yet) been successful in reaching the same level of stimulation from anal masturbation, either by myself or by a partner, either by fingers or toys.
haven't been able to climax yet doing it myself with my finger, but my wife has made me climax before, unfortanately she has only done it to me a few times. I do like to borrow her dildo, and i climax everytime
Personally, I have arthritis, so the movement really hurts sometimes. I can't do it often, however there are plenty of toys out there for men that are made to hit it properly. I would suggest in investing in one of those.
It doesn't ALWAYS work though. If it feels uncomfortable, be patient and experiment. If you still can't get it, it may just not be for you =(. Lots of lube and LOTS of patience is what you need.
maybe my dreams of experiencing the full-blown orgasmic spasm with the prostate stimulated is just a dream. I think Sararei is right a combination of oral, and finger working the prostate!!
I've done it while jerking off, best orgasm ever. It was so good i twitched and let out a loud OHH. good thing I was home alone.
Yup.. First time I had that done resulted in one of the most powerful orgasms I've ever had. Out of body, mind blowing... felt like my mind exploded. yeh..
My wife wanted to make our sex life more interesting so she read up on "milking the prostate". I had anal sex with her a couple of times but i didn't think she liked it. I thought she was only doing it for me. Well.......after she gave me one of the biggest orgasms ever by "milking the prostate" and giving me oral sex at the same time she wanted me to perform anal on her. She said it was one of the biggest orgasms she has ever had. Even told me it was the best sex we have had together ever and that is saying something since we have been together 18 years. But here is my problem.....she wants anal sex more now....like every other time we have sex but she prefers to be on top when having anal sex. Why i don't know...guess because she can regulate the depth. I see it drives her crazy with multiple multiple orgasms. I like doggy style but she will only let me get a little over half in (just like when she is on top). She says it feels "unbelievable" but she also said that if i go over half way in that it begins to get painful. She wants me to cum inside her every time and i love that but i want to do it while i am all the way in. Do you know of any way to ease this for her? Maybe just practice and repetition will do it.