problem "cheating, pregnancy"

over

 

well first off DO NOT drink anymore till you know for sure if your pregnant or not....
Second if you are then worry about him being there if not get over it cause you all are going to keep taking turns hurting each other and never really forgive and forget....
if you turn out being pregnant then i still advise not trying a relationship because the resentment will not go away and thats only going to make it stressful on you (which theres enough stress during pregnancy and you get jelous and cranky anyway)...

 

uhm, you two sound pretty bad for each other, to be honest.

 

the thing is were really not its just been a couple of bad decisions and i don't really hate him

 

Because you cheated on your boyfriend before, it might make him question who the father is. But, if you are pregnant, he will probably freak out anyway.

I know that's not really much help, but it is something you might need to anticipate.

 

don't date anyone who drinks too much forget the cheating shit. He sounds like an alchoholic and that's really a dangerous situation so you should end it.
If you are pregnant and you do not want to keep the baby don't tell him about the pregnancy (I've been stupid in the past and had to terminate a few pregnancies and never told my partners because it would have just been hurtful). If you want to keep it stop drinking and make sure you straighten out so he can't get custody and honestly think about adoption because neither of you sound like you are ready to be parents.
I'm not judging you. I would be sol if I got pregnant right now and am very greatful for my period everytime it comes!!!

 

One alcoholic (male or female) is trouble.

Two alcoholics is quadruple trouble.

Throw cheating/ pregnancy/ maintaining silence (more lying) into the mix n it approaches nuclear disaster territory...

 

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It's prolly the right place but One can only go by the posted Facts.
I'm not reading Minds tonight. *s*


Truth is the best policy regardless of what Others may say period/dot/end of subject

 

I think it’s a little harsh to accuse Shania or her partner of being alcoholics. Come on, heaps of young people get absolutely pissed every weekend. Most eventually grow out of it. Not to mention the fact that you are basing your accusations on a single post.

What’s more important here; that she drinks, or that she might be pregnant? She asked for advice. That's it.

 

And none of those are alcoholics because so many are doing likewise and only on the weekend?
Think the Truth prolly lies somewhere inbetween?


I'd guess many would be surprized by the clinical definition of alcoholism but it's no biggie as 'I'm not an alcoholic cuz all I drink is beer.'


BTW all One can go by is what's posted w/a healthy dose of filling in the blanks when required.
My guess is she didn't like what she heard especially being told to not be Truthful w/her BF.
It's not the first time this has happened...

 

i'm not pregnant so i erased the thread seeing as i don't need the advice anymore. so you don't need to be a bitch and critisize me

 

Appears your other post on the same subject is generating similar views yet there's no mention of 'bitch'.

What's up?
You asked, I and others answered.


Good Luck...

 

As the OP has removed ALL her posts relating to the thread, and there is nothing here but attacks, (which will not be tolerated) the thread is closed.

I suggest all involved stop the attacks and move on.