Pregnancy Issues *Need Your Help*

I know I come up with some strange stuff here, but my wife and I have a 6 year old and want another child. We have tried for over 4 years and have used some fertility drugs (don’t do it girls!) and we have even discussed pretty drastic measures. One of which was a friend’s wife who volunteered to have a child for us, when we explained we did not know yet if my wife’s eggs were still good she offered to just get pregnant naturally from me. We have also thought of a surrogate in the truer form medically.



Here is the problem: After all of this time now my wife seems to have backed out of the idea and is actually worried of getting pregnant again due to the fact she has had a few miscarriages and she is not 40. I would love to see her pregnant again, but well………WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON?????



We are very sexual people including heavy flirting and ….. that I guess is for private messages…..HELP!

 

I guess it depends on what you and your wife are comfortable with, in the form of surrogates. If your wife doesn't mind you having sex with someone else in order for her to have a baby for you,(did I understand that part correctly?), then I say, if it works for you and makes you BOTH happy, you should be free to do as you like.

Her change in feelings might have something to do with having someone other than herself give birth to your child. Or, perhaps with the difficulties you have been having she is having second thoughts about her ability to carry another child to full term. I am just guessing with these, not knowing your wife or you personally it is really all I can do.

Be patient with her, and try to get her to talk to you about it without getting angry or defensive. It can be a touchy subject, especially if you have been trying for a long time with no success. She could be feeling like it is something wrong with her that is keeping it from happening. Good luck, I hope something in here helps.

 

I thank you. Feel free to say anything I will not get offended.

Her and I have had three-somes so that shouldn't be a problem....RIGHT? You were correct with me getting a friend pregnant. That was the offer and it shocked me much more than my wife. I think she knew of the offer 1st. Our friend has great kids of her own so she makes great babies>>>>>>We have flirted and fondled with her before and loved it, but I think now I am getting sex confused with the real issue. I want her comfortable.

 

I think that your wife, should be taking a tablespoon of coconut oil daily. It literally cures infertility... and other bacteria that can cause miscarriages, this is coming from a pregnant woman with a history of cervical cancer, chlaymdia, PID, gonnerea, and a few other things.. this is my first healthy pregnancy after I started taking it six months ago.

And if you're trying to get pregnant, she needs to be taking prenatals everyday three months prior.

And I think that you, dear sir, should be taking Yin Yan Huo *otherwise commonly known as Horny Goat Weed*, as it increases the sperm count. A lot.

 

My advise would be to try a course of reflexology, I tried for five years to conceive my first child. I tried everything going. I didnt really believe in alternative therapies at the time but am convinced that this helped me. It's worth a try in my opinion. Good luck guys!