Possibly Pregnant, Need Reassurance

I had to find some sort of forum or something to get some info, this was the first that popped up on google so I'm hoping someone can help me. Anyways;

Me and my girlfriend have sex, usually once every other time we see each other (like 2-3 times a week probably). I'm very safe about it and use condoms always because I don't want a kid at 19. Well today we had sex, then we we're cooling off and decided to both jump in the shower. We both started going at it again so she layed down and I was jerking myself off over top of her. I'd occasionally use the same hand I was jerking with to finger her. I wasn't thinking at the time but what is the chances that sperm from the previous ejaculation came out in pre-cum, I got it on my hands while jerking off, then fingered it inside her?

We're both kinda scared, her periods in like a week and she just wants to wait and see and I'm kinda freaking out. My back was to the shower so water was pouring all down my arms and crotch area so I'm hoping if there was any pre-cum with sperm from the previous ejaculation that it didn't get in her because it was washed away from the water. She also said sperm can't live in water(?). I'm not sure if that's true or not.

Any information (especially some that would settle my mind) would be great. Thanks in advance.

 

Hiya. I'm young...but maybe I'll help.

Me an my guy have never used condoms. He always pulled out.

And I've never gotten pregnant.

So... Maybe that gives you a little reassuance?

 

Well see I'm afraid that because we had sex before, that some pre-cum may have got on my hands that contained sperm from sex, then I fingered it inside her.

 

I wouldn't worry about it, the chances are super slim.

 

I understand what you're worried about.
But you're probably okay.

Let me know how it ends up, man.
Peace.

 

Your (and especially her) fault.

It's called the pill or any of its various forms.

 

do you have access to emergency contraception?
might be good to look into, for the future.
planned parenthood (last time I checked) can get you a year's worth for $50.
small price to pay for peace of mind, I think.

 

Was asking for some information or help. Not for some douche's opinion on whose fault it is. If you have anything on-topic to say such as the chances of that happening, say it. If not, fuck off.

 

Help would be "get on BC" which is what you could take away from my original comment.

cheers

 

"Get on BC" has nothing to do with the original topic and gives me no a single piece of information that I'm looking for. Thanks for being a troll though.

 

Knowledge for the future, I guess. If you get stuck with spawn you'll quickly realize you two should have done it sooner

 

Or get it aborted like we already decided we would if she is.

 

oh, also -- there are a lot of forms of herbal contraception that can be used in conjunction with condom use.
they're generally a lot less expensive than hormonal methods, and lots of people think they're healthier.

sister zeus/ is a good resource if that's an option for you. From my understanding, the Chinese Dong Quai root is known to stimulate menstrual bleeding -- I've been able to find it at local health stores relatively inexpensively.

basically what I'm saying is -- there's no way to know what, if anything, happened from this incident -- but if you're interested, there are other ways to be even safer.

by the way, I salute your regular condom use. many men refuse and leave responsibility entirely with the woman. sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders.

 

Well her period starts first week of the month (in 3-4 days) so if she doesn't get it we'll know.

Yeah I have a bit more dignity than that. First time she wanted to do it I didn't have any condoms and she said to do it anyways. I resisted although it was hard lol

 

Good choice :smash:

BTW, abortions are pretty expensive.

Depending on the state, PP, the abortion pill is around $500

(and some insurance won't cover it!)

 

yeah, I meant right now, in this moment there is no way to know. sometimes things make sense in my head but not when they come out

good luck!
not sure if that's the right sentiment ... guess it works as well as anything, though.

 

it should be fine, stuff like that has happened to me before. since you were in the shower the cum on you may have washed off a little bit..and i know this may sound weird but if your shower was really hot, some of the sperm may have been killed, sperm cant survive in extreme heat..idk if that would make a difference but it sounds good to me lol..

 

since it was last month im sure you found out by now

 

it's like one in a million chance for her to get pregnant.

if that day wasn't 14-15th days after the woman's previous period the chance is already slim.
precum itself even when leaked into the womanfrom penis gives a slim chance of pregnancy.
and from precum that supposedly contains sperms that have survived from a previous jerkoff? way slim chance.

yet you should use emergency contraceptive pills whenever you have a suspicion for the two of you to relax, even in a one in a million risk such as this.

 

stimulate her with a coat hanger next time and that pregnancy issue should take care of itself...