me and my boyfriend just moved in together, and every morning before he leaves for work he kisses me goodbye. well, today, after he left, I couldn't get back to sleep, so I decided to check my e-mail. When i got to the computer he had left a porn website up. I realize its normal for guys to look at porn, but how normal is it for them to look at it when there girlfriend is in the next room?
But didn't he think you were asleep? Maybe he just wanted a quick fix so he masturbated to porn and didn't want to wake you. I wouldn't worry about it unless it starts to effect something like your sex life or relationship.
its one hundred percent normal, and nothing to worry about.........my husband was looking at porn on the ps3 lastnight while i was 10 feet away on the computer... who cares?! doesnt matter where he gets his appetite as long as he comes home for dinner.
How normal is it for a girl to be insecure, jealous, and irrational? Way too. It's his body, despite how you may feel about that.
I am all three, and I bet many people are... but I mean if you are "in love"................ such a difficult subject
If you are truly in love, you should have enough respect for the person to talk to them about your insecurities, rather than look for something wrong within them.
i dont understand why porn would make anyone feel insecure or jealous, or whatever....its fantasy, its visual stimulation, and its variety - as with anything in life, sometimes you gotta switch up the flavors to keep it fresh right? if anything why not join him and make a little game out of it.... it can be great fun
Meh, I wouldn't worry to much about it. It's fun to watch things go into other things. Kind of like basketball, hockey, and that one game you play as a child where you match the shapes with the holes and stick them in. It's just...sex. If he's holding out on you and would rather masterbate that's a different story.
most guys stop looking at porn when their girlfriends learn the difference between there, their and they're.
meh...i think i was just upset because i was in the next room, and wouldnt have minded if he had woken me up...but maybe thats something i should tell him.
Well, he can't know it's okay to wake you if he gets horny unless you tell him. I don't see why you didn't just confront him and start fooling around with him then and there...
its so normal for a guy to look at porn. i would just get pissed at my ex who looked at porn all morning while i was at work but didnt do the dishes. i mean come on, all this time.... other things could be done!
