please disregard my name for this forum

I took this name so my family (brothers and one sister) wouldnt freak out if they saw this site. i would have to lie. :/ because its so freaking hard to come out. i dont know what to do here, i just need people to talk to. please

 

ok I'll buy that for now, what is it you want to talk about?
S

 

i think im bi, im scared to say something, im scared the way my family might take it, probally disowning me

 

I need to go now, but i'll be on in about 6 hours, think about rejoining under a more neutral name, you can always say to your family that the gay forum is a large part of the site that you don't go into.
at the moment your going to annoy the people you want help of with your name
S

 

I mean dude, if they come into the gay forum and see this post, they're going to know your "secret" anyway, so what's the difference what name you post under? Don't be so paranoid.

But it's not like I don't understand your need to be secretive.

 

look, this is godhatesfags brother, dude, you don't know our parents, they'll disown us and we'll end up foster kids if they find out

 

Hi, Im listeneing , tell me whats up, you wont find any judgement here, believe me , I understand.....!!!!

 

I really want to help you..Samhain is my working partner

 

I have been where you are now..I know how scared you are..my uncle was a minister, talk to me......

 

ok, i just feel kind of outkasted, example would be my whole life i have been around friends and family (not to mention school) that would ridicule and discriminate againsts gays, so if i was to be accepted i had to do the same thing and pretend to joke around and call people gay and shit......

 

I understand, tell me what scares you the most about letting people know who you really are, is it your family ?

 

Parents suck, and I've known people who are GLBT with parents that would kick them out and parents that were like, "Good for you. Now do the dishes. So what do you think of Brad Pitt?" My dad (aka Cpt. America) FREAKED when he found out I was dating a girl. If you need help, the Rainbow Family forum is always a great place.

I would also suggest changing that name... give yourself some respect. You don't need your parents to be who you are.

 

I understand, I'm bi myself.
For me coming out was kinda fun, but I don't live with your parents.
I seriously doubt that they'll kick you out, maybe shout and argue with you maybe even get physical, but it's only a small price for being brave enough to admit who you really are, to be yourself, trust me, it's REALLY liberating once it's out in the open.
Right now to you, this is one of the biggest issues in your life, but in a few years you'll look back on this like "what was all that fuss about?".

What you must reallise is that regardless of your emotions this is not as big of a deal as you might think, your sexuallity is as normal as the need to breath, so in comparison you must do just that.
When you must breath - breath
When you must be your self - do so with no fears.

Everything will be fine in the end, think of it like, "today the rain is going strong, but tommorow the sun will be shining bright".