i like him to be nicely built (aka firefighter!!), i mean who doesnt, BUT i find i am also attracted to even the chunky guys as long as they have a GREAT sense of humor and nice personality.
I like average guys...about 20lbs overweight is nice, because then they are soft and cuddly! Muscle bound men are fun to look at but I wouldn't want to have sex with one. Just doesn't sound fun or comfortable!
I'm not too picky when it comes to physique. But, like everyone, I have a certain preferences that turn my head: Men: For men, honestly, super skinny, tall pale boys with long dark hair drive me nuts. I love lanky guys with long spider-like legs. I do not like muscles and find big, bulging pecs to be disgusting. Women: I love a curvy woman. Large breasts, the whole hourglass thing really drives me nuts. I like shorter girls, but tall girls with sexy long legs are hot, too. But, I like my women almost the opposite of my men. But pale, I despise tans.
i like girls that are a little chubby. not so there face is like round, or double chines or anything. but a nice soft belly, that is a little round. also chubby girls have nice tits, and nice full asses. plus im not a fan of the lanky girl's bony arms, especially around the elbow. but... when it comes down to it, if i didnt have a gf already, if the girl is cool, its no big deal what they look like as long as they weigh less then me, and im 220lbs, so yeah im pretty open i guess
My past attractions have seemed to be directed at tall (six-foot plus), lanky boys who move gracefully ... Most of them have been thin, but with a little muscle to them. (One was a ballet dancer. ) But I also have undying yen for a thin little fellow who is barely taller than I ... and the Poet is my height and build. So I guess it all depends.
Haha... "I'm a classic ideological moron who believes looks don't matter." ... YES! No, serious. I've been proven very wrong. I like girls a bit chubby, not FAT, 'cause I'm pretty skinny myself, but a bit chubby (and they HAVE to be shorter than me) is always good... I used to think I'd NEVER go for skinny girls... until I fell for one, hard. She was around 4'10 and 75-80lbs. but that didn't matter any more when I met her. I ALSO used to think muscular guys were ICK... mind you, I never really saw guys "like that" but seeing a really muscular guy completely disgusts me, I like 'em a bit pudgy, even just guy friends... they're much better to cuddle with, anyway. But, look at me now, the lesbian married a guy, and he's quite solid at around 5'10 and anywhere from 190-210lbs. Definitely NOT fat/pudgy (I'm working on it, haha) but I don't mind the muscles, I just try to ignore it until I need him to open something or move something heavy, haha.
Well I like my man to be average. I like my women to be average. I am actually not what my boyfriend's past type had been.....he's always chosen the skinny girls. But I'm not that. Before 3 kids I was but now I'm just average, not too fat not to skinny.....and he loves it. tells me that all the time. Though I hate how i look.
I go crazy for: big(muscle AND fat) hairy(beards, shoulder length hair, bit of chesty) tan(leathery skin) mature(minded) guys. Young guys seem to all be skinny, underfed and not manly. Men should be men.
whoa! reading over my last post i think i expressed the wrong message.. coz i go for all sorts of guys.. - good personality - funny - intelligent - caring -whatever ... so long as i like being around them and one VERY important thing.. i HAVE to love it when they touch me.
My ideal physique in a sexpartner a is a woman Younger than older..An active one a Frisbee Chick, a Wandering Soul... Shorter... around 5' -5'4". I'm 5'10.. and what do people say "Shape in porportion to Height" whatever..around 100-125. Dark Hair...longer than shorter. Darkeyes..Deep Eyes...physique wise ? I do especially love legs calves and feet...smaller breasts are to me much sexier than hangers...hands are importantl..and to borrow from above... """so long as i like being around them and one VERY important thing.. i HAVE to love it when they touch me.""""When we have a clearer idea of what our preferences are the Universe provides us with more of what we know that we like...as we think so we are...Think Well
Well I weigh around 70 kg (thats more than 125 lb I think) and I dont look fat (Im 170cm tall, thats 5'7). I think weight in numbers should be discarded from thought coz its misleading. Anyway, my verdict for hot people= being healthy is the hottest!
