I don't understand why. I used to love to be around people, but now, I just don't feel enthusiastic about being with my closest friends. I know, I know, I need to be around new people, who I don't know that well. I tried that. I got a boyfriend about a month ago, and when we're together, I just don't feel anything. I'll be with my friends, and I'm not that inspired anymore. I don't get a lot of oppurtunity to be alone to think, because I share a room with my sister, and my family lives in a really small house. And after forty-five minutes in the bathroom writing, my siblings start to get worried. What should I do?
You sound depressed. Do you think that you are, or are you just fed up with the crowd you're hanging with?
Depressed isn't the word I'm looking for. I just feel alienated from my friends, like another species or something. Most people are so small minded, and it's boring to hear them carp about whatever people find interestin these days. Even people I have a lot in common with, like my boyfriend and really close friends, just seem like I'm wasting my time being near people and associating with them.
So there are people like me in North Carolina then? Welcome to the Hip Forums. =) I'm afraid I have no advice. Many times, I feel the same way.
i feel the same way around my friends... i'm away from them for like two days and so much changed in those days I don't even know why i'm still friends with them. also i'm soo sick of my family.
dont go to the bathroom, got ot the park. you need time to yourself. i need my alone time definately i spend most of my time at home alone because my family is rather boring overall lol after manyyears of being together
You just sound like you are stuck in a rut plain and simple. I get in those moods when everything is just BLAH who gives a f*ck. It always passes with me. Try doing something you don't normally do. That ought to help. Best of luck to you.
i only like to talk to people who are eccentric or interesed in art as ive found most "normal" people are just too boring. Of cousre everybody thinks that theyre not the boring one but they are. Drinking, tv, movies, music are all extremly mind numbing and its mind numbing people that talk about it. Im probally boring to you but im ignorant so i dont care. What can you do without a tv, stereo or pub?
I live in nc too and feel the exact same way... My friends are nice people but I just feel on a completly different level and cant seem to find someone to love that is open minded and intelligent.
